If you are like many guys who have gone through a break up that you didn't really want, you might be wondering, "What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back?" Well, rest assured that it isn't necessarily a lost cause.
There are several things you can start doing right now that will drastically increase your chances of getting your ex back.
Forget the Past Many people think the answer to the question, "What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back?" is to try to figure out what wrong and then fix it.
But while figuring this out might help you to not make the same mistake once you and your ex have reconciled, it probably won't help to get her back in the first place.
Instead of focusing on the pass, consider where you can go from here to get back with your ex.
Give Her Time to Miss You After a breakup, it might make sense to do everything you can to make sure she doesn't forget you, like calling frequently, or sending daily email messages.
But all this will do is push your ex further away and make her start to avoid you.
Instead, take a few steps back.
Minimizing contact will actually make your ex think about you more, and in a good way.
Expand Your Horizons What should you do while you are "taking a step back" from your ex? Expand your horizons.
Don't isolate yourself, spending all of your time alone missing your ex.
Force yourself to go out and do fun and interesting things.
This doesn't necessarily mean hooking up with someone new.
It simply means not focusing your life on your past relationship.
Go to concerts.
Make group dinner dates with friends.
Take that art course or computer course you never got around to signing up for.
Not only will doing these things help take your mind off of your painful breakup, it will also help make you a more well-rounded, interesting person.
The kind of person your ex girlfriend will find appealing.
If the question, "What can I do to get my girlfriend back?" has been on your mind a lot lately, these simple strategies will help you take a step in the right direction.