Are you hungry to learn how to fix a broken relationship? Well that is a good thing, because there is plenty of information contained within this article to help you get started with the actions necessary to fix the things that are broken. Perhaps there are a hundred questions flying through your brain wondering if you did something wrong or perhaps you are the one who actually triggered the breakup, but now you realize that you have made a very grave mistake!
Regardless of how it went down, at this point assigning blame for what happened and who did what should not be the point of focus if you are attempting to understand how to fix a broken relationship.
Here is a very straight forward question for you; since the breakup has occurred, do you truly want to repair the broken relationship and make up with your ex for the long haul? That is a question that you must be sure of what the real answer is, because uncertainty in this area will only lead to another blowout in the relationship.
In fact, I have even talked with people who swear up and down that they are going to break off a relationship with someone and once they do it, they are totally miserable and want that person back more than ever. Now keep in mind that is with the person who is doing the breaking up planning this out in advanced!
The point is that we must become self-ware; aware of who we are and what our purpose in life and love is. If you are confused about yourself, who you are and where you are going, then how in the heck do we expect someone else to understand us? So, that brings me to your first step in how to fix a broken relationship; Becoming self aware!
Now this does not have to be any big deal in figuring this out, but if you and/or you ex are scattered, confused, tensed, frustrated, piss-off about life, work and people, then without those issues being fully aired out and handled properly, then chances are the relationship will again be headed towards catastrophic failure.
Most of us know that we can be kind of "freaky deaky" at times! I mean, sometimes, we can really be a weird person. Come on… you know what I am talking about!
With that being said, the number one most important step in learning how to fix a broken relationship is communication. Well, duh! However, not just communication with our partner of ex lover, but the most vital kind of communication that is inward and forces us to ask the hard questions about our self. This kind of communication makes us self-aware!
Truth said, before you get out there and start making any kinds of plans of winning each other's confidence and trust back, you must talk to yourself and get real answers to hard questions about yourself! Without a doubt, we can all learn enormously from personal growth and self-improvement.
Since you are dealing with 2 people lives it would be considered most wise to slow down and think this through clearly with many hours of quiet reflection time on the relationship and the goals you have for it!
These actions go can a very long way in assisting your learning of how to fix a broken relationship and making it better and stronger than it was before.
It takes work! But, stay committed, because the end results are well worth it!
Regardless of how it went down, at this point assigning blame for what happened and who did what should not be the point of focus if you are attempting to understand how to fix a broken relationship.
Here is a very straight forward question for you; since the breakup has occurred, do you truly want to repair the broken relationship and make up with your ex for the long haul? That is a question that you must be sure of what the real answer is, because uncertainty in this area will only lead to another blowout in the relationship.
In fact, I have even talked with people who swear up and down that they are going to break off a relationship with someone and once they do it, they are totally miserable and want that person back more than ever. Now keep in mind that is with the person who is doing the breaking up planning this out in advanced!
The point is that we must become self-ware; aware of who we are and what our purpose in life and love is. If you are confused about yourself, who you are and where you are going, then how in the heck do we expect someone else to understand us? So, that brings me to your first step in how to fix a broken relationship; Becoming self aware!
Now this does not have to be any big deal in figuring this out, but if you and/or you ex are scattered, confused, tensed, frustrated, piss-off about life, work and people, then without those issues being fully aired out and handled properly, then chances are the relationship will again be headed towards catastrophic failure.
Most of us know that we can be kind of "freaky deaky" at times! I mean, sometimes, we can really be a weird person. Come on… you know what I am talking about!
With that being said, the number one most important step in learning how to fix a broken relationship is communication. Well, duh! However, not just communication with our partner of ex lover, but the most vital kind of communication that is inward and forces us to ask the hard questions about our self. This kind of communication makes us self-aware!
Truth said, before you get out there and start making any kinds of plans of winning each other's confidence and trust back, you must talk to yourself and get real answers to hard questions about yourself! Without a doubt, we can all learn enormously from personal growth and self-improvement.
Since you are dealing with 2 people lives it would be considered most wise to slow down and think this through clearly with many hours of quiet reflection time on the relationship and the goals you have for it!
These actions go can a very long way in assisting your learning of how to fix a broken relationship and making it better and stronger than it was before.
It takes work! But, stay committed, because the end results are well worth it!
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