At one time, getting a divorce may have seemed like the perfect solution to all your problems with your spouse.
Unfortunately, the more you think about it, the more you begin to second-guess your actions.
Suddenly, you realize you don't want to give up your spouse and now you're wondering, "How do I stop my divorce?" Don't fret - instead, make use of a few steps that can help you get your spouse back.
Don't point fingers Blaming each other for your problems gets you nowhere.
And while your spouse may truly be the one to blame, if you want him or her back, you have to leave the past in the past.
You already know the two of you are having problems; that's a given.
Arguing won't get you back together.
It will simply make matters worse and get you off track.
Try to change The old saying says forgive and forget.
However, you may have forgiven, but forgetting is an entirely different matter.
That's understandable, but again if you want your marriage, do whatever it takes - even if that means changing your behavior.
Also, admit the faults that have contributed to your marital problems.
Stepping up and trying to change some of your negative behavior really shows that this marriage means a lot to you.
Put in the work Some people think they can do something for a while and it will change your relationship.
I won't.
Trying to stop a divorce can take an enormous amount of effort.
But, whenever you feel discouraged, think about what you're fighting for - your marriage.
If you've had a ton of good years and a few rocky ones, then surely, the good ones outweigh the bad.
Get committed to your relationship and do whatever is necessary to help stop your divorce.