If you have had a fulfilling relationship with your ex in the past then you are probably hoping to get back into a relationship with them.
You have probably invested a lot of your time, maybe money, and certainly emotion into this other person.
Just because one person says it is over does not mean that all of the love is gone.
If you have been in a relationship for any period of time then the chances are that you have shared some good times together.
You must have good memories that cannot be quickly forgotten.
(Otherwise you probably would not choose to be in relationship with this person - right?) Even if your ex is angry and doesn't seem to remember any of the good times right now, it may not be too late to save your relationship.
Even if you have drifted apart over time and have not made your relationship a priority in the past, there may still be hope for your relationship - if you are willing to put in the effort.
Yes, you can have hope for the relationship even if you seem to be the only one interested in saving it right now.
You need to feel this sense of hope.
Do not give in to hopelessness and despair.
Those negative emotions will do nothing for you and they certainly will not attract your partner back to you.
The way you think about the situation will probably have more influence on what happens next than any actions you take.
So, the first thing you have to do is focus on yourself.
Take a good look at your attitudes and your actions in the relationship.
Are you the kind of person that you would want to have a relationship with? Are you giving and forgiving? Do you lift others up and make them feel good about themselves when they are with you? Do you encourage and compliment others? This is not necessarily about personality.
Why would you change your personality when obviously that is something that you had when you first attracted your partner? And besides, you should not be expected to change your personality for anyone.
So, if I'm not talking about personality then what do I mean? I am talking about the way that you treat others.
If you have been a negative person in the past (or if you allowed yourself to become negative over time, maybe because of stress in the relationship) then the first thing you need to do is focus on the good things in your life.
Concentrate on what you do have and be grateful for it rather than complaining about what you don't have.
Practice being thankful and you will become more positive.
This is a quality the will make you more attractive to everyone.
It may sound simple but it will require some effort.
Hopefully this is one idea that you choose to try and it just might be a change that gets your ex's attention.