If you can identify with the above statement you are not alone.
Many times we feel in our hearts that the breakup was premature and want to do nothing more that to get him or her back in our lives.
You've probably done everything you know to try to apologize, make amends, and get your ex back, with no success.
You are getting to the point where you feel as if your only option is to just give up.
But are you really ready do that when there could still be hope to get your ex back? The situation you find yourself in is not uncommon and it is not hopeless.
How am I so sure? Not long ago, I myself was in the same position you now find yourself in.
I felt the same desperation to do whatever it took to get my ex back, and as attempt after attempt to do so failed, I began to feel as if the chance to get back together was gone.
What I soon realized though was that my constant contact was the problem keeping me from being successful in my efforts to get my ex back in my life.
I was feeling desperate and rejected and I would constantly call begging and pleading and it was getting me nowhere.
This only stood to push him further.
So I decided to change my approach.
It in not uncommon for the "dumpee" to feel desperation in trying to get their back after a breakup.
Feelings of rejection cause us to act in emotionally erratic ways often leading us to push our ex further away rather than bringing them closer.
The more desperate our attempts to get them back are, the more turned off they are going to be by our behavior, and this will stand to ruin your chances to get your ex back.
To truly get your ex back, you must rekindle those feelings of desire and attraction you had early on in your relationship.
This is all up to you and involves moving on with your life and becoming a better you with each passing day.
If what you are doing isn't working, stop repeating the same worthless behavior.
Change your tactics and work your way back into the heart of your ex with action, not begging, pleading, or other desperate behaviors.