If your ex recently broke off the relationship and you are wondering how to approach getting them back then take heart and give some these tips a try.
While getting your ex back after a breakup is never easy, it is possible if you know the right steps to take.
Believe it or not, you do have the ability to control (to a certain extent) the future of your relationship.
People can be a little predictable so if you take certain actions then people are likely to react in a predictable manner.
Therefore, listen closely and you could be on your way to getting them back! Get off the couch! After a breakup, people have a tendency to spend entirely too much time on their butts.
Heartbreak is painful and can lead to depression which is why it's critical for you to fight the desire to do nothing and get moving again.
Go out with friends, see family but make sure you are not acting like a hermit and holing yourself up in the house.
The more you interact with others the sooner you will get your emotions under control and your head back in the game.
You cannot get your ex back if you're in a miserable place mentally.
Make a subtle change Style your hair a little differently, get it colored or buy a new outfit.
Making a change serves two purposes and they both move you closer to reconnecting with your ex.
First, you make a mental break between the old, pre-breakup you and the new, glowing and resilient you! Second, a change will make you stand out in your ex's mind when you see them again.
While it may be subconscious, your ex will pick up on the change and be curious to find out what all the fuss is about.