Breaking up is not an easy task, no matter for men or women.
And thus many people suffer in unhealthy relationship.
They will come out with all sort of reasons to skip breaking up, such as scare to be lonely; they don't want to hurt their partner and scare to start a fresh new relationship, etc.
In fact, there is no point to carry on when a relationship is not worth keeping.
It is a time wasting for both of you.
But how are we going to know when is the time to break up with our girlfriend? Here are some reasons you may apply.
1.
Addiction could cause a disaster to a relationship.
From alcohol, drugs to work, shopping, gambling addictions, all these are going to ruin the relationship.
Unless she is willing to get help from the professional or you might just have to let her go.
2.
If you are always the one who compromises and feels frustrated all the time, this is not a good sign.
If you are not happy with all the compromising and frustration, you should know what to do now.
3.
If she is avoiding you, then you should get the signal and pull off.
4.
If she get angry easily and you are just like on eggshells all the time, she even turns to physical abuse, there is the sign that you should stop dating her.
5.
If she is not passionate toward you and not excited when she sees you.
She is not interested to be intimate with you, and she seemed bored regardless what you do to her, drop her for your own good sake.
6.
If both of you have different moral elements, end the relationship as soon as possible.
7.
Are you lifestyles, backgrounds and interests similar? If they are in two extreme ends, you better stop now.
8.
If you want to get married and she doesn't, you better think twice is this the woman you really want.
To avoid further loss as you wish to go into marriage, go for someone else.
9.
If your relationship is all about argument and quarrel, there is no point to carry on.
Some argument might help to improve relationship but if yours are ongoing and not productive, it's time to stop wasting time.
Breaking up is a serious thing and not easy to be done however it's the best thing to do when we have to.
And thus many people suffer in unhealthy relationship.
They will come out with all sort of reasons to skip breaking up, such as scare to be lonely; they don't want to hurt their partner and scare to start a fresh new relationship, etc.
In fact, there is no point to carry on when a relationship is not worth keeping.
It is a time wasting for both of you.
But how are we going to know when is the time to break up with our girlfriend? Here are some reasons you may apply.
1.
Addiction could cause a disaster to a relationship.
From alcohol, drugs to work, shopping, gambling addictions, all these are going to ruin the relationship.
Unless she is willing to get help from the professional or you might just have to let her go.
2.
If you are always the one who compromises and feels frustrated all the time, this is not a good sign.
If you are not happy with all the compromising and frustration, you should know what to do now.
3.
If she is avoiding you, then you should get the signal and pull off.
4.
If she get angry easily and you are just like on eggshells all the time, she even turns to physical abuse, there is the sign that you should stop dating her.
5.
If she is not passionate toward you and not excited when she sees you.
She is not interested to be intimate with you, and she seemed bored regardless what you do to her, drop her for your own good sake.
6.
If both of you have different moral elements, end the relationship as soon as possible.
7.
Are you lifestyles, backgrounds and interests similar? If they are in two extreme ends, you better stop now.
8.
If you want to get married and she doesn't, you better think twice is this the woman you really want.
To avoid further loss as you wish to go into marriage, go for someone else.
9.
If your relationship is all about argument and quarrel, there is no point to carry on.
Some argument might help to improve relationship but if yours are ongoing and not productive, it's time to stop wasting time.
Breaking up is a serious thing and not easy to be done however it's the best thing to do when we have to.
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