Unless the first person you were ever romantically involved with became your lifelong partner, odds are you have had to deal with the break-up of a romantic relationship.
Listed here are some ways to get over a break-up even if you are still in love with your ex: 1)Be kind to yourself.
Just because one relationship has ended does not mean that another one, or several good ones, will not come along again.
Your perfect match could be just around the corner waiting for you to find them.
2) Avoid looking desperate at all costs.
The look of desperation is not a good look on anyone, and it will actually hurt your chances of finding love again.
If the prospect of winning back your ex is one that sounds appealing to you, it is important to let them see what they are missing.
Being miserable is not a good way to show them that you are a catch.
Always put on your game face in public; never let people see how insecure, miserable, or desperate you really feel.
The pain may be almost unbearable, but that means you need to try that much harder to present a confident and pleasant exterior in case you run into your ex, one of their relatives, or a mutual friend.
Save the crying for the privacy of your bedroom.
3) Do not put your life on hold.
That is what I said! Crying and letting the pain out is good, but do not wallow in the pain 24/7.
Even though it is natural to have these feelings after a break-up, you will only make yourself feel worse by continuing the pattern of negative feelings.
4) Try not to over think things Its important to take an objective look at what you could have done better; however, it is possible the break-up was not even about you.
A very common cause for breaking up is that one person becomes afraid of commitment.
But if you indeed were the one to initiate the break-up and you feel like it was the wrong choice to make, let your ex know how you feel.
Every now and then it takes something like a break-up to make us realize we had something good going the whole time.