The relationship has come to an end, but you've decided that you're not ready to accept that.
You want to get them back; you need them back in your life.
Here are a few things to try in order to get back the love you lost.
Communication A lot of times all it takes is to go to them and admit the truth.
A relationship is nothing without communication, and if you want to truly work things out with them, you need to level with them and tell them the truth.
Express how you really feel, don't hold back.
Willing to sacrifice If the relationship is going to work out, you may have to give up on something.
Show her you're willing to change, that you're willing to give up something in order to get them back.
This will make them consider your offer.
Everything starts from now The relationship has had problems, so going back to the "way things were" is not an option.
You just can't.
You have to accept that in order for things to work, you have to start completely from scratch and build a new relationship.
The way it was is what led to all the problems in the first place, remember? Someone new? Is there someone new in their life? If so, this could cause a major complication.
This new person could just be their way of filling the gap you left behind.
The only way to be sure is to ask them.
Maybe this new person isn't what you think they are.
All you can do is to ask and be sure.
It's all about choices It's time for you to start making some tough choices; are you sure you want them back? Are you sure it's the right thing for both of you involved? Do you still love them? What are you willing to do in order to get them back? Once you can make some hard choices about where you stand, you can move forward.
Talk to their friends A lot of times their friends will have some insight on the situation that you're missing, especially a close friend of your ex.
Try pumping them for information, see what you can find out.
Seek professional help There's nothing wrong with talking to a professional about your problems.
It may even be helpful for your ex to talk to a professional with you, if they're willing.
A therapist could have some insight into the situation that could help.
But, you never know until you talk to them.