If you are sitting there after your boyfriend has just told you that he needs to take a break from the relationship for awhile, you are probably wondering how to make your ex boyfriend love you again. You thought you were going to have a long and loving relationship with this guy and now he might be gone forever. You are smart enough to know that needing to take a break for awhile was just a way of trying to let you down easy, so he could get out of there before you began crying and begging for another chance. But no matter how big a coward you think he is by taking the easy way out, you still love him. So here is some special advice to get your ex back:
First of all you need to know what makes a man run from a relationship and what makes him fall in love with you enough to want to be with you forever. Men do not fall in love as easily as women. When he is growing up, his life is filled with playing gangster or sports and girls are something to be avoided. Some of this cannot help but be carried over into manhood. Although he gradually realizes the magic of a woman and how good it is to be with her, he still has that reluctance to let his hair down and be romantic.
When he is out with the boys the talk is about their many conquests of women. It doesn't matter that most of the tales are lies, it still is a status symbol. To be deeply in love with one woman is quite often a shock to his system. It goes against his natural hunters instinct and he fears that he is being tamed and domesticated. He can see himself tied to a mortgage and other monthly bills and it will take a lot to make him give up what he considers his freedom. So you do not have to make your ex boyfriend love you again, you just have to show him that without you nothing would mean anything to him. He has to make up his mind to put away the toys of childhood and become a man.
To do this, you will have to make him fear that he has lost you forever. The best way to do this is to take yourself out of the picture entirely. Just disappear! When he broke up with you, he was expecting you to beg him to love you again. When you ignore him instead and act as if you are alright with the breakup and give him the impression that you are fine without him, he will begin to fear losing you for good. This is where it gets crucial because you do not want to push your advantage too far or he might give up on you.
First of all you need to know what makes a man run from a relationship and what makes him fall in love with you enough to want to be with you forever. Men do not fall in love as easily as women. When he is growing up, his life is filled with playing gangster or sports and girls are something to be avoided. Some of this cannot help but be carried over into manhood. Although he gradually realizes the magic of a woman and how good it is to be with her, he still has that reluctance to let his hair down and be romantic.
When he is out with the boys the talk is about their many conquests of women. It doesn't matter that most of the tales are lies, it still is a status symbol. To be deeply in love with one woman is quite often a shock to his system. It goes against his natural hunters instinct and he fears that he is being tamed and domesticated. He can see himself tied to a mortgage and other monthly bills and it will take a lot to make him give up what he considers his freedom. So you do not have to make your ex boyfriend love you again, you just have to show him that without you nothing would mean anything to him. He has to make up his mind to put away the toys of childhood and become a man.
To do this, you will have to make him fear that he has lost you forever. The best way to do this is to take yourself out of the picture entirely. Just disappear! When he broke up with you, he was expecting you to beg him to love you again. When you ignore him instead and act as if you are alright with the breakup and give him the impression that you are fine without him, he will begin to fear losing you for good. This is where it gets crucial because you do not want to push your advantage too far or he might give up on you.
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