Breakup is painful no matter how strong a person is.
So, it is normal for you to think of getting back together with your ex boyfriend.
There is no strategy that works all the time.
That really depends on the person and situation as there is seldom a one size fits all solution.
So, keep your cool first and then you can strategize on your next steps.
First, you must be aware that thinking strategically is the way to go.
This includes keeping emotions out of the equation.
The first thing you must say to your ex boyfriend is to agree on the breakup.
Tell him that you intend to move on with life without him.
This may seem counter-intuitive but it will make sense later on.
At this time, learn to enjoy your life now.
This is the time to take up interests that you have been neglected when you are in the relationship.
Without anyone to take care of now, you are free to pursue your interests.
Meet up with friends and have lots of fun.
In the company of friends, your mind has the magical effect of not thinking of relationship problems.
Your ex also need to room to heal.
Give both of you the space to clear the negative emotions.
After the breakup, you may be tempted to contact your ex.
Do not do that.
Instead, you must limit the contact points with your ex.
When your ex realizes that you are not around for him anymore, he may feel really uncomfortable.
Eventually, he will be thinking of all the activities both of you do together.
Finally, he may come to miss you.
Do not be deceived by the simplicity of these approaches.
You may see some of the steps as nonsense but do them anyway.
With enough patience and work, you may eventually win your ex back.