So you're angry, probably for good reason.
The more you think about it, the angrier you get.
Relationships are like that, you have to take the bad with the good.
It can't always be smooth sailing.
If you want to hang on to that great thing that you both have, two things have to happen.
Someone has to forgive and someone has to apologize.
I once heard a saying that states "forgiveness is the fragrance of the flower, on the heel of the boot that crushed it.
" If the flower can forgive, then so can you.
Anger and pettiness is like a cancer that eats us alive from the inside out.
When you dwell on a negative, your mind feeds you more reasons to be mad.
Of course, the opposite is true; when you think about pleasant things you naturally have a tendency to be more positive.
A wise person knows it pays in the long run to take the high road.
Don't drag yourself down and take well meaning but poisonous advice from friends.
Friends, who don't understand the most intimate part of your relationship, could not possibly give you constructive advice on which path to take.
Well, there you are, feeling like a heel because you said things that you never thought you were capable of, but, he/she drove you to it.
We've all said or done things we were not proud of.
You want to say you didn't mean it so what's stopping you? In a word, pride.
Ah yes, that egotistical good for nothing emotion that has brought down more relationships than alcohol.
Don't let your ego rule your life.
Your ego is not who you really are; your ego is who you want the world to believe you are.
If you can separate the two differences you than are half-way there.
So you want to apologize, that doesn't mean you have to grovel or beg for forgiveness.
Just make an honest attempt and be sincere enough to admit your mistakes.
One could say it's swallowing your pride, it's more like a reality check confessing that you're not perfect; who is? When we act out of anger then we reduce our options to a mere few, you box yourself into a corner.
But, when we operate from reasoning and contemplation; sometimes we can get the other person to see their own errors.
Deciding to try to repair a broken relationship is one thing, finding the words or the means is quite another.
Luckily there is a web site whose specialty is two-fold.
This web-site carries a line of wonderful make-up cards with prose that would soften the hardest soul and they donate 50% of their profits to help fund shelters for victims of domestic abuse.
You can accomplish two good deeds with one visit.