Your boyfriend broke up with you and the absence of his love is tearing you to pieces.
Knowing he is out there having a good time is unbearable.
All is not lost.
Seriously, couples are notorious for having a rift that separates them for a while but wind up back in each others' arms with an even greater appreciation than they had before the break up.
There are certain signs you can look for from your ex boyfriend in discerning his desire to get back together with you.
Is your boyfriend still available for casual contact in your life? If he has chosen to keep you in his life as a friend, then rest assured there is probably more to it than that.
Perhaps his indecision on the break up keeps him holding on to the chance to keep you close.
He doesn't want to risk pushing you completely out of his life because he feels that he may have made a mistake in breaking up with you.
You need to hang on to this friendship with him and support him during this trying time.
Does your ex boyfriend indicate to you that he misses you? Does he make sure to greet you whenever you are in the same vicinity of him? Even though you have a fairly good amount of casual time around your ex boyfriend, does he mention to you in conversation that he misses you? This is a positive signal that he misses your company and is curious about you missing him.
The fact that your ex boyfriend is making communication with you at all is a positive sign that he is interested in you.
The more habitual the contact, the stronger the meaning is behind it.
For instance, maybe he sends you a text message during his lunch hour almost every day.
This indicates that you are part of his routine.
This is a signal! When your ex boyfriend requests details on your current affairs, don't string him along or trick him into thinking that you may have some men on the side at your beck and call.
This could send a bad signal to him in convincing him that the chances for reconciliation are zilch.
You appear to have healed and moved on, and he will most likely attempt to do the same with his life.
During casual times together with your ex boyfriend, have you noticed him looking antsy, as if there is more on his mind than his mouth is telling? You may have to take the helm and reveal a little bit about your feelings of desire for him.
Help put him at ease and try to learn the details on his feelings.
Is he having thoughts of getting back together? At some point in time this will have to be addressed, one of you will have to reveal the need for reconciliation.
It's important that the timing and comfort level be suitable for such a conversation.
If you pay attention to the signals, if they exist, eventually all will come to light.