Whether it is a simple misunderstanding or a long-term brawl, you have been through a fight.
And there are only two outcomes; either you won or you lost.
No matter what the outcome had been, what matters is that you fought at all.
There is no braver fighter than that who had engaged in the war and had not backed down.
That is a mark of winning, although it might not always be credited by others.
However, some would like to be credited that they won.
And for that matter, you have to make sure that you win fair and square.
For that to happen, you must learn the art of fighting and engaging in fights.
The first rule is to pick your fight.
There is no point engaging in something where you are already assured as the loser.
This will only dampen your mood.
If you know that you have a chance of winning and that that chance can be increased by using the right words or attitude, then go for it.
Bravery and cowardice come hand in hand that choosing the other will completely expel the other.
If you choose to brave your enemies and show them what you can do, rally and join the fight; if you are not confident enough to try it, retreat.
The second rule is to have enough self-confidence.
Winners are nor born; they are made.
And that statement means that whoever thinks that he is a winner will win.
If you are thinking that everyone is better than you and that you are a loser, you will find it hard to win.
Lose that attitude and see things from a different angle.
You cannot win a fight when even you do not believe in what you can do.
There will never be scientists and leaders if they did not believe in themselves and pursued the fight that they had been living for.
The last and most important rule is to risk.
Fights may come everyday, and you may lose sometimes.
But with those failures come lessons that you can use to win someday.
Do not be afraid to lose sometimes; it's just your time to win yet.
And when that time comes, you have to savor it and give it your best.
You will never win if you do not persevere.
The fight may seem impossible to win, but if you know that you have a sliver of hope to come through victorious, try risking it and be amazed at what you can do when you believe in yourself.
And there are only two outcomes; either you won or you lost.
No matter what the outcome had been, what matters is that you fought at all.
There is no braver fighter than that who had engaged in the war and had not backed down.
That is a mark of winning, although it might not always be credited by others.
However, some would like to be credited that they won.
And for that matter, you have to make sure that you win fair and square.
For that to happen, you must learn the art of fighting and engaging in fights.
The first rule is to pick your fight.
There is no point engaging in something where you are already assured as the loser.
This will only dampen your mood.
If you know that you have a chance of winning and that that chance can be increased by using the right words or attitude, then go for it.
Bravery and cowardice come hand in hand that choosing the other will completely expel the other.
If you choose to brave your enemies and show them what you can do, rally and join the fight; if you are not confident enough to try it, retreat.
The second rule is to have enough self-confidence.
Winners are nor born; they are made.
And that statement means that whoever thinks that he is a winner will win.
If you are thinking that everyone is better than you and that you are a loser, you will find it hard to win.
Lose that attitude and see things from a different angle.
You cannot win a fight when even you do not believe in what you can do.
There will never be scientists and leaders if they did not believe in themselves and pursued the fight that they had been living for.
The last and most important rule is to risk.
Fights may come everyday, and you may lose sometimes.
But with those failures come lessons that you can use to win someday.
Do not be afraid to lose sometimes; it's just your time to win yet.
And when that time comes, you have to savor it and give it your best.
You will never win if you do not persevere.
The fight may seem impossible to win, but if you know that you have a sliver of hope to come through victorious, try risking it and be amazed at what you can do when you believe in yourself.
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