Family & Relationships Conflict

Don"t Be a Martyr

One of the most difficult parts of being in relationships is the fact that there may come a time when things have to end.
The usual scenario: Your boyfriend cheated on you with another girl.
You feel terrible.
He tells you he's sorry and swears he'll never do it again.
You take him back.
Yet even if he's back in your arms, you feel doubtful and unsure.
Is he still your soul mate? Am I wrong in finding the one? Is this the price of finding love? Let us discuss the possible answers...
Every time you are in a relationship or you are in "luv", it is essential not to put both you and your "perfect partner" in a bind.
Do not be too hard on yourself or your partner.
If you know that things are not going well, take sometime to think about things.
If you need to break up, do it.
If you need time off, say it.
If you are too obsessed about quickly committing a guy into marriage or fearful that you won't have a Valentines date, then maybe your relationship won't be working in the long run at all.
At times, the single status becomes an object of cosmic terror that prohibits you to freely decide on what you think is right.
There is such a thing as martyrdom, and no person in his/her right mind would want that to happen in their life.
If faced with a very serious problem, it is always important to sit down and talk.
Before you even make a decision, ponder about it and make sure you are prepared for other things that may come in the future.
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