Do you want to save your marriage alone? If your spouse seems resistant, as though he or she doesn't really want to fight for your marriage, then you may have been forced into this position.
I know from my own personal experience that this is a discouraging and lonely place to be in a relationship.
You might begin to feel like throwing in the towel too.
But what if you could do one thing to turn things around and save your marriage? What you don't want to do! These are the three mistakes that I made.
Making these mistakes definitely won't fix your marriage, so please try to avoid:
Focus on saying positive things about your partner that can be supporting and helpful and simply try to leave out the criticism for a while.
What this does for you: your spouse starts to regard you as an uplifting part of their life rather than someone they feel is wearing them down.
If their position on the relationship changes then they're going to have more of an investment in making things work out between the two of you.
This is just what occurred in my relationship.
This is a deceivingly simple technique that can work magic - just try to stop yourself from complicating it! Start to save your marriage alone and you'll see that in a short matter of time your spouse will respond and start putting effort into the marriage themselves.
I know from my own personal experience that this is a discouraging and lonely place to be in a relationship.
You might begin to feel like throwing in the towel too.
But what if you could do one thing to turn things around and save your marriage? What you don't want to do! These are the three mistakes that I made.
Making these mistakes definitely won't fix your marriage, so please try to avoid:
- Making your spouse feel guilty about their indifference toward the relationship.
It will simply discourage them further from putting any effort into your relationship! - Begging and pleading are a major turn off! You will just come across as needy and pathetic, and will that strike your partner as attractive or romantic?
- Repeating "I love you" will start to sound irritating after the hundredth time in a day.
Focus on saying positive things about your partner that can be supporting and helpful and simply try to leave out the criticism for a while.
What this does for you: your spouse starts to regard you as an uplifting part of their life rather than someone they feel is wearing them down.
If their position on the relationship changes then they're going to have more of an investment in making things work out between the two of you.
This is just what occurred in my relationship.
This is a deceivingly simple technique that can work magic - just try to stop yourself from complicating it! Start to save your marriage alone and you'll see that in a short matter of time your spouse will respond and start putting effort into the marriage themselves.
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