Men have always wanted to figure out what do women want their men to be like.
Since you are reading this article while going through a break up and your broken heart wishes for your ex to get back with you, this could be a perfect time to outline the basic needs of women.
If you could assimilate these rules in your everyday dealings with women I could guarantee you to never have your heart broken again, never have to go through a break up / wish to get your ex back / try to save your marriage / try to win back lost love (whichever the case is - it is quite painful) Let's start outlining the major points women themselves have said are most important to them in building and maintaining a relationship: - Confidence - Self confidence that is.
Be who you are and be proud of it.
- Make her feel special and unique.
Women love feeling special they need to be reassured they are the only one.
Gestures that are usually attributed to gentlemen such as opening doors, offering a jacket on a cold evening, walking her home etc...
builds a feeling of being protected, pampered and cared for.
Women love feeling cared for and special, make sure you demonstrate it.
- Fun and Humor.
Most of the women would point out that they are drawn to men with a sense of humor that would make them laugh.
Take a chance, by funny.
This one might be the most important point of them all.
- Be a good listener.
Women love talking about their lives, their problems, their everyday experiences.
Still they do not do that in order to receive an advice, they mainly just want to express things and air them out.
Try to be supportive.
Listen.
Try to be active while listening.
Ask relevant questions.
Look interested.
This will get her to open up and share her emotions while building a close relationship with you.
- Make her feel sexy.
Women like nothing more than feeling attractive.
Looking at other women while you are with her does not make her feel attractive.
Comparing her with other women around would probably aggravate her.
Make her feel special as if she is the only sexy woman on earth.
- Be faithful.
A woman would like to feel you are loyal and trustworthy.
Don't cheat on her.
Don't tell her you've been cheating on your ex.
Appear as a loyal and faithful man that honors traditional values, a man of character, a man of his word - a man she can trust.
There are a few more points, dealing with amount of sensitivity to show, women's attitude towards masculine ambition, buying her gifts and so much more.
Part 2 of this article would be published soon...
Remember, the whole idea is for you to build a relationship that would be sound and lasting, that would not end up breaking your heart and would not make you wish to save your relationship, win back lost love and get your ex back.
Build it right so it will not fall apart.