Okay face it your ex hates you at the present time! Now, now, you know it's just a stage.
So, what to do to get your ex to fall for you again is the question of the day.
First thing you must do is get real about the fact that they are really mad, disappointed or just flat out hate you right now.
Let this simmer down.
Don't give them any reason to fan the break up flames.
So the most important thing to do is space, give them their space to calm down and remember something good about you.
Anytime a person feels the way they do with such intensity talking with the person who made them feel that way only makes it worse.
People tend to rationalize everything they do convincing themselves they are not wrong at all.
So, this makes who wrong? You that's who, so lay low.
After you've been out of the picture a few days or weeks they will start to realize there is no reason to defend their position.
You know, stand up and fight for their rights and proceed with the power struggle.
After all your gone and there is no one to doubt or fight with.
You absence will make them begin to question their great anger towards you.
Now that you've backed off and left them alone they will calm down, give up the fight and think about all the good things they will now start to miss about you.
Your silence is now about to start to pay off.
BUT keep away.
They must contact you first.
More good news is that your ex had fallen in love with you the first time around and so those feelings will start to surface during this quiet time.
The good news is history stands good chances of repeating itself if you stay away, keep quiet and don't make waves.
But how do you get them from the thought of you to actually falling for you again? This is the tricky part.
However, you need to fight the urge to make it happen.
You've pushed this person far enough as it is or you wouldn't be smack dab in the middle of a break up.
All you can do is, once again, leave them alone.
Once they contact you be nice and yet keep your talk to a minimum.
Let them talk and be a good listener.
Actually take notes and let them know you've had a lot of time to think and understand change must happen in order for you to ever be any good to any relation.
Ah, note the word any? This suggests to your ex you've faced the facts and understand you blew it with them.
They may then begin to wonder if their part in the break up was over the top and consider getting back together.
After thinking of you in a relationship with another after having worked on your skills might just be all that's needed to get back together.
BUT, you had better actually get some great relationship skills under your belt or you'll be back on the street in no time.
You must walk the walk and talk the talk to get the one you love back.