How do I save my relationship? You ask yourself.
You want to find a solution.
You might need some help.
Actually, the very first and important step to save your relationship is to communicate with your ex sincerely and effectively.
You might have to talk to your ex over the phone at this stage.
Often that means you may have to just wait for the return call from your ex.
You start to feel worried and lack of faith.
Will my ex return my phone call, or text? Is there any magic way you can use to get your ex to return your phone call? It is hard to believe so.
But there is truly a way that can make your ex feel compelled to answer your call.
The secret contains two aspects - The Wrong Way and The Right Way.
How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest For Your Advantage 1.
The Wrong Way that almost NEVER works : What you should NEVER Say There are usually two categories.
- EMERGENCY "Jason, this is very urgent.
Please call me as soon as possible.
-PLEAD "Mary, can you just give me a call? I have to talk to you.
" Can you see what is wrong with both of these approaches? Your relationship will get more damaged under much pressure.
No relationship can be restored upon coercion.
So, how can you do? 2.
The Right Way : Use Curiosity & Self Interest For Your benefit This is the TOP SECRET.
Curiosity and self interest are the most powerful forces in the human mindset.
People usually tend to be self-central.
When you combine these two ideas into your words, you have provided an offer that cannot be resisted.
So, what you can say that works almost EVERY TIME? In a humble manner: "Hi Jason.
This is Amila.
I just want to tell you how much I appreciate what you have done for me.
Give me a ring because I want to thank you in person.
" Can you tell the magic power that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking.
And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up", which is realizing what he/she did that you can appreciate sincerely.
It can be any small thing...
but needs to be plausible.
If you apply this technique with no underlying plan and they call you back, you could actually do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it properly.
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Have a PLAN! Your faith to try leads to direction to success.
You want to find a solution.
You might need some help.
Actually, the very first and important step to save your relationship is to communicate with your ex sincerely and effectively.
You might have to talk to your ex over the phone at this stage.
Often that means you may have to just wait for the return call from your ex.
You start to feel worried and lack of faith.
Will my ex return my phone call, or text? Is there any magic way you can use to get your ex to return your phone call? It is hard to believe so.
But there is truly a way that can make your ex feel compelled to answer your call.
The secret contains two aspects - The Wrong Way and The Right Way.
How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest For Your Advantage 1.
The Wrong Way that almost NEVER works : What you should NEVER Say There are usually two categories.
- EMERGENCY "Jason, this is very urgent.
Please call me as soon as possible.
-PLEAD "Mary, can you just give me a call? I have to talk to you.
" Can you see what is wrong with both of these approaches? Your relationship will get more damaged under much pressure.
No relationship can be restored upon coercion.
So, how can you do? 2.
The Right Way : Use Curiosity & Self Interest For Your benefit This is the TOP SECRET.
Curiosity and self interest are the most powerful forces in the human mindset.
People usually tend to be self-central.
When you combine these two ideas into your words, you have provided an offer that cannot be resisted.
So, what you can say that works almost EVERY TIME? In a humble manner: "Hi Jason.
This is Amila.
I just want to tell you how much I appreciate what you have done for me.
Give me a ring because I want to thank you in person.
" Can you tell the magic power that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will NOT be able to resist! "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking.
And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up", which is realizing what he/she did that you can appreciate sincerely.
It can be any small thing...
but needs to be plausible.
If you apply this technique with no underlying plan and they call you back, you could actually do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it properly.
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Have a PLAN! Your faith to try leads to direction to success.
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