Many people often breakup with their partners because they are not getting what they want from their partners.
If your ex broke up with you then there is a reason why they broke up with you.
For example your partner may want you to lose weight.
Now many people get very angry at this when their partners insist that they lose weight.
Well think of it this way, if your partner became fat and ugly would you still want to be with him? Especially if in the beginning your partner took great care of themselves.
People often misunderstand and think that their partners are trying to force them to become something that they don't want to become.
But this is not true.
If your partner didn't care about you they wouldn't tell you to take care of yourself.
Of course they care about you they want you to be happy.
When you are happy it makes them happy.
However if you have really let yourself go, now's the time to do something about it.
You need to change your mindset, yes it's true it might be their idea that you need to join the gym or make some changes in your life.
However they are not attacking you when they advise you.
If you have that mentality that everyone is criticizing you.
You will end up being the loser in the long run and you won't get them back.
Sometimes it's hard for us to eat humble pie.
There's nothing wrong with being wrong sometimes.
It doesn't have to be a power struggle.
Even now you can let your ex know, that you appreciate his concerns and that you will do something about it.
If you have broken up with your ex then let them know that you're doing this to have a better life for yourself regardless of them.
You only get one life and there's no point feeling like Bridget Jones.
If you remember in the film even she took action when she got dumped.
What did she do? She got a new job.
Once your ex sees that you're making these changes in your life they are much more likely to come back to you.
However if he calls you in a month's time and sees no changes, then there is no reason for them to come back.
People leave relationships because they are not happy with the same old thing.
Therefore you need to try harder and do better for yourself and for your future.
If your ex broke up with you then there is a reason why they broke up with you.
For example your partner may want you to lose weight.
Now many people get very angry at this when their partners insist that they lose weight.
Well think of it this way, if your partner became fat and ugly would you still want to be with him? Especially if in the beginning your partner took great care of themselves.
People often misunderstand and think that their partners are trying to force them to become something that they don't want to become.
But this is not true.
If your partner didn't care about you they wouldn't tell you to take care of yourself.
Of course they care about you they want you to be happy.
When you are happy it makes them happy.
However if you have really let yourself go, now's the time to do something about it.
You need to change your mindset, yes it's true it might be their idea that you need to join the gym or make some changes in your life.
However they are not attacking you when they advise you.
If you have that mentality that everyone is criticizing you.
You will end up being the loser in the long run and you won't get them back.
Sometimes it's hard for us to eat humble pie.
There's nothing wrong with being wrong sometimes.
It doesn't have to be a power struggle.
Even now you can let your ex know, that you appreciate his concerns and that you will do something about it.
If you have broken up with your ex then let them know that you're doing this to have a better life for yourself regardless of them.
You only get one life and there's no point feeling like Bridget Jones.
If you remember in the film even she took action when she got dumped.
What did she do? She got a new job.
Once your ex sees that you're making these changes in your life they are much more likely to come back to you.
However if he calls you in a month's time and sees no changes, then there is no reason for them to come back.
People leave relationships because they are not happy with the same old thing.
Therefore you need to try harder and do better for yourself and for your future.
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