Breakups are painful and it is hard to get rid of bad memories and past hurts.
But a time comes in your life when you should put all that behind you and make a move towards a better tomorrow.
If you are willing to take back your ex no matter what, then you need to start focusing on the right things and have a plan to follow! Be forgiving.
You have to get over the pain of being dumped.
Even though it is difficult to forget the fact that you were betrayed by someone you trusted, the faster you learn to forgive, the faster you will be able to visualize a future with that very same person.
Once you do that, you can show your ex that you have no hard feelings and as far as you are concerned 'the dumping' never happened! Impress your ex.
Concentrate on looking great! Your ex should start to miss you and that will happen when your ex sees what he/she is missing! Work out at the gym, and get clothes that will make you look gorgeous and sexy.
This should not only make your ex stare at you but will make other guys/girls ogle you! Revive old memories.
This is easy if you and your ex had a terrific sex life! If your ex sees you looking stunning and can't help checking you out, all you have to do is subtly flirt with him/her! This will bring back all the old feelings of desire and revive old memories - the good ones! Be patient.
It is possible that your ex still needs time to get over the past.
Giving him/her that time is the best thing you could do, even if it is the most frustrating at times! In the meantime you have to continue to show your ex the side of you that is charming and attractive.
Very soon he/she may want you to be more than a friend!