You probably won't believe this, but everything you were taught as a kid regarding how to treat women is probably keeping you from dating great women.
Society teaches us to be gentlemen around women, and that we should be polite, formal, and all that stuff about etiquette.
Sadly, if being a gentleman is all you know, then you're probably setting yourself up for a world of hurt.
Here's why.
Women only appreciate your gentlemanly advances when she sees you as a friend.
But when you're trying to be a potential lover, as in the case of dating an attractive single woman, it bores them to death.
Women don't really like it when you smile and laugh at everything they say - especially when they can see right through you when you're faking things.
Let's test your knowledge.
Suppose an attractive woman approached you at a bar and asked, "I've been getting a lot of stares tonight.
Do you think I'm cute?" Would you go ahead and tell her that she's the most beautiful woman to ever set foot in the bar, or would you joke, "Actually, it's because of that big zit on your forehead"? If you're more likely to reply with the former, then here's a surprise - you'll actually turn her off.
Think about it.
Attractive women probably get a lot of attention from a different men, and they've probably been told that they're beautiful several times in the past.
If you simply say something she's heard before, then she'll immediately see you as "just another one of them.
" But if you try to be playful and funny, it's a refreshing change of scenery for her - and she'll be more inclined to stay at the bar trading friendly barbs with her newfound boy.
If all goes well, you'll have each other's numbers soon enough.
Another way women might see you as a wussy is when you're not really in control of your life.
Admittedly, we all have problems, and some of us need to vent out every now and then.
But when you do so to a potential girlfriend (probably to gain a little sympathy), it backfires.
Why? Because nobody likes a whiner! If you're wondering why a lot of men who aren't as attractive or smart as you seem to have more luck with women, it's probably because they don't whine like a whipped puppy.
These are only some of the ways that almost instantly kill any attraction that a woman may have had for you.
Just remember that when a woman suddenly just wants to be friends, then you might be doing something that made her see you as a wussy.
Get your act straight and find out what you're doing wrong.
Society teaches us to be gentlemen around women, and that we should be polite, formal, and all that stuff about etiquette.
Sadly, if being a gentleman is all you know, then you're probably setting yourself up for a world of hurt.
Here's why.
Women only appreciate your gentlemanly advances when she sees you as a friend.
But when you're trying to be a potential lover, as in the case of dating an attractive single woman, it bores them to death.
Women don't really like it when you smile and laugh at everything they say - especially when they can see right through you when you're faking things.
Let's test your knowledge.
Suppose an attractive woman approached you at a bar and asked, "I've been getting a lot of stares tonight.
Do you think I'm cute?" Would you go ahead and tell her that she's the most beautiful woman to ever set foot in the bar, or would you joke, "Actually, it's because of that big zit on your forehead"? If you're more likely to reply with the former, then here's a surprise - you'll actually turn her off.
Think about it.
Attractive women probably get a lot of attention from a different men, and they've probably been told that they're beautiful several times in the past.
If you simply say something she's heard before, then she'll immediately see you as "just another one of them.
" But if you try to be playful and funny, it's a refreshing change of scenery for her - and she'll be more inclined to stay at the bar trading friendly barbs with her newfound boy.
If all goes well, you'll have each other's numbers soon enough.
Another way women might see you as a wussy is when you're not really in control of your life.
Admittedly, we all have problems, and some of us need to vent out every now and then.
But when you do so to a potential girlfriend (probably to gain a little sympathy), it backfires.
Why? Because nobody likes a whiner! If you're wondering why a lot of men who aren't as attractive or smart as you seem to have more luck with women, it's probably because they don't whine like a whipped puppy.
These are only some of the ways that almost instantly kill any attraction that a woman may have had for you.
Just remember that when a woman suddenly just wants to be friends, then you might be doing something that made her see you as a wussy.
Get your act straight and find out what you're doing wrong.
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