Starting a conversation with a guy is the stepping stone towards building a relationship.
Having a good first conversation can create a lasting impression on a guy and develop his interest in you and make him pursue you.
Here is what you need to do if you want to learn how to strike up a conversation with a guy.
Attract attention In order to attract his attention you will first have to make an attempt to catch his attention in a very neutral way.
That you can do by looking your best.
It can be very difficult to create silent attraction if you look like a dump.
So dress up whenever you head out.
Make eye contact When you see a guy that you would like to talk to the first thing that you must do is to establish eye contact.
Making eye contact establishes some form of connection after which striking up a conversation doesn't seem that strange or awkward.
Smile Just making eye contact and then looking away will make you look like either a disinterested snoot or like a stalker.
If you want to give meaning to your eye contact then add a warm smile to it.
That gives the impression that you are a warm person and are also open to talking to him.
Try using his opinion After you have established the initial connection then you can take it to the next step.
You can ask him for his opinion on something that you would normally take a man's opinion on.
It could be on selecting a tie for your dad or a shirt for your friend.
Make sure that you tell him who you're buying the thing for else he will think that you have a man in your life.
Ask him for help You could also ask him for help.
It could be while carrying a couple of drinks across the floor or getting the door for you when you have your arms loaded.
You could also ask him for help in picking up some music CD's or movies.
Don't look like you are making a move Keep one thing in mind while you are doing all this.
You have to look like all this is natural and not practiced.
If your move looks practiced then you end up looking a little desperate.
Say thank you Once he has finished helping you, you should look at him and thank him.
Ask him if you can repay him by buying coffee and then you can take your conversation further.
Having a good first conversation can create a lasting impression on a guy and develop his interest in you and make him pursue you.
Here is what you need to do if you want to learn how to strike up a conversation with a guy.
Attract attention In order to attract his attention you will first have to make an attempt to catch his attention in a very neutral way.
That you can do by looking your best.
It can be very difficult to create silent attraction if you look like a dump.
So dress up whenever you head out.
Make eye contact When you see a guy that you would like to talk to the first thing that you must do is to establish eye contact.
Making eye contact establishes some form of connection after which striking up a conversation doesn't seem that strange or awkward.
Smile Just making eye contact and then looking away will make you look like either a disinterested snoot or like a stalker.
If you want to give meaning to your eye contact then add a warm smile to it.
That gives the impression that you are a warm person and are also open to talking to him.
Try using his opinion After you have established the initial connection then you can take it to the next step.
You can ask him for his opinion on something that you would normally take a man's opinion on.
It could be on selecting a tie for your dad or a shirt for your friend.
Make sure that you tell him who you're buying the thing for else he will think that you have a man in your life.
Ask him for help You could also ask him for help.
It could be while carrying a couple of drinks across the floor or getting the door for you when you have your arms loaded.
You could also ask him for help in picking up some music CD's or movies.
Don't look like you are making a move Keep one thing in mind while you are doing all this.
You have to look like all this is natural and not practiced.
If your move looks practiced then you end up looking a little desperate.
Say thank you Once he has finished helping you, you should look at him and thank him.
Ask him if you can repay him by buying coffee and then you can take your conversation further.
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