If asked does a man always love his first wife the most, I would have to say equivalently yes.
After being divorced from my first wife for twenty three years, and three bad marriages in between.
I now discover myself in the position of dating my first wife again.
We have always managed to keep some connection over the years, and it always felt like a need that had to be fulfilled even though we lived in different States a lot of the time, and we were very seldom allowed to see or speak to each other, mainly due to our other spouses being jealous.
I can't really explain what it feels like trying to love another woman when the thought of your first wife is always in the back of your mind.
The amusing part of our relationship was that whenever one of us would try to let go the other would draw closer.
It was easy to excuse the need for seeing and speaking with each other when our girls were young, but it never did stop even after the girls were grown, and on their own.
I believe there is some sort of bond that is formed with your first real love.
We married very young, and we had three daughters that are finding all of this very confusing to say the least.
We began talking again to each other on the Internet a little over a year ago, and it has now become a full fledged romance that will most likely find us getting married again this year.
Dating my first wife again is easy compared to dating a stranger.
I know her likes and dislikes, and there isn't much I can hide in our relationship after her knowing me for thirty years.
I wish I could turn back time, and know what I know now back then.
How true these words are at times.
I feel very lucky to have her back again, and at last my life now seems in order after all these years of being apart.
When I see younger couples bickering I wish I could show them what life can hold in store for those that don't realize how fortunate they are at the present time.
Perhaps time has a way of showing us the mistakes we make during our younger years.
After twenty three years of paying for my mistakes, it feels like the sun has at last come out from behind a dark cloud, and the universe is at peace again.
The guidance I offer to others is to cherish your partner, and live each day as if it were the last.
Showing someone you love them is not a sign of weakness.
However not showing them can lead to a lifetime of tribulation.
Learn to appreciate the good things in your relationship instead of focusing only on the bad, and always remember these words Home is where the heart is, and there's no place like home.
After being divorced from my first wife for twenty three years, and three bad marriages in between.
I now discover myself in the position of dating my first wife again.
We have always managed to keep some connection over the years, and it always felt like a need that had to be fulfilled even though we lived in different States a lot of the time, and we were very seldom allowed to see or speak to each other, mainly due to our other spouses being jealous.
I can't really explain what it feels like trying to love another woman when the thought of your first wife is always in the back of your mind.
The amusing part of our relationship was that whenever one of us would try to let go the other would draw closer.
It was easy to excuse the need for seeing and speaking with each other when our girls were young, but it never did stop even after the girls were grown, and on their own.
I believe there is some sort of bond that is formed with your first real love.
We married very young, and we had three daughters that are finding all of this very confusing to say the least.
We began talking again to each other on the Internet a little over a year ago, and it has now become a full fledged romance that will most likely find us getting married again this year.
Dating my first wife again is easy compared to dating a stranger.
I know her likes and dislikes, and there isn't much I can hide in our relationship after her knowing me for thirty years.
I wish I could turn back time, and know what I know now back then.
How true these words are at times.
I feel very lucky to have her back again, and at last my life now seems in order after all these years of being apart.
When I see younger couples bickering I wish I could show them what life can hold in store for those that don't realize how fortunate they are at the present time.
Perhaps time has a way of showing us the mistakes we make during our younger years.
After twenty three years of paying for my mistakes, it feels like the sun has at last come out from behind a dark cloud, and the universe is at peace again.
The guidance I offer to others is to cherish your partner, and live each day as if it were the last.
Showing someone you love them is not a sign of weakness.
However not showing them can lead to a lifetime of tribulation.
Learn to appreciate the good things in your relationship instead of focusing only on the bad, and always remember these words Home is where the heart is, and there's no place like home.
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