It's easy to feel desperate to get a girlfriend back when you feel as though the relationship ended on a sour note, and that there were things that you could have done to win her back.
You have flashbacks to moments when you were with her, and the more those memories come back to you, the more you find yourself clamoring to get your ex girlfriend to come back to you.
The problem is, when you feel as though you are desperate to get back with her, you can end up doing things that are more than likely going to push her away for good.
And you do not want to have that experience, do you? Here are 3 very common things that will drive her away: 1.
Constantly trying to pry into her life now that she has broken up with you.
This is really common and men of all ages end up doing some of this.
They will try to keep tabs on what their ex girlfriend is doing, ask her what she has been up to, and who she is seeing.
These kinds of prying questions are just going to make your ex girlfriend feel like you are trying to control her or spy on her, and they are going to make her feel like she was more than right for breaking up with you.
And to be honest, if you do these things too much, then she might be right about that.
2.
Asking her to hang out just as friends and then acting like it is a date.
This is another common mistake that guys will make.
They will call up their ex girlfriend, ask her to hang out, and then act as though they are on a date.
Now, it's not uncommon for exes to hang out as friends, but the moment you try and make it out to be a date, it's a whole other story.
Of course, this really is a timing issue, because this is a tactic that can work quite well, but the timing has to be right, and most guys get it WRONG! 3.
Acting like a complete doormat or pushover when you are with her.
You might think that becoming a Yes man and doing whatever she says and agreeing with her all of the time would make her want you back, but you would be wrong.
Do this, and you will start to lose your manliness and she will notice this.
It's okay to still have your own ideas, opinions, and life even when you want to get her back.
You have flashbacks to moments when you were with her, and the more those memories come back to you, the more you find yourself clamoring to get your ex girlfriend to come back to you.
The problem is, when you feel as though you are desperate to get back with her, you can end up doing things that are more than likely going to push her away for good.
And you do not want to have that experience, do you? Here are 3 very common things that will drive her away: 1.
Constantly trying to pry into her life now that she has broken up with you.
This is really common and men of all ages end up doing some of this.
They will try to keep tabs on what their ex girlfriend is doing, ask her what she has been up to, and who she is seeing.
These kinds of prying questions are just going to make your ex girlfriend feel like you are trying to control her or spy on her, and they are going to make her feel like she was more than right for breaking up with you.
And to be honest, if you do these things too much, then she might be right about that.
2.
Asking her to hang out just as friends and then acting like it is a date.
This is another common mistake that guys will make.
They will call up their ex girlfriend, ask her to hang out, and then act as though they are on a date.
Now, it's not uncommon for exes to hang out as friends, but the moment you try and make it out to be a date, it's a whole other story.
Of course, this really is a timing issue, because this is a tactic that can work quite well, but the timing has to be right, and most guys get it WRONG! 3.
Acting like a complete doormat or pushover when you are with her.
You might think that becoming a Yes man and doing whatever she says and agreeing with her all of the time would make her want you back, but you would be wrong.
Do this, and you will start to lose your manliness and she will notice this.
It's okay to still have your own ideas, opinions, and life even when you want to get her back.
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