If you enjoy the aesthetics of a female bodybuilder or another female hard body type (figure competitor, Olympic athlete, or fitness model) and want to date such a woman, consider the following three tips.
They are just three of many tips learned from guys who have dated these athletic women.
1) Remember that their physiques are exceptionally rare.
All you have to do is go to an airport or other place with lots of women to realize that lean, muscular women are pretty scarce.
Even fewer of them get into the super-lean condition which is required for events such as a female bodybuilding contest.
Since their physiques are so uncommon, they will get lots of stares from everyone - both men and women.
Imagine if everyone stared at you wherever you went...
all the time! So do what you can to both make her feel special, yet normal! This means appreciate her for something other than her physique and aesthetics, and then treat her normally.
2) Work on your own mentality.
Remember that simply by her physique she will not only intimidate other women, but she will intimidate many men.
Many female bodybuilders have commented that they hate this "inner weakness" in men and it drives many of the women to going to online dating services or looking for dates in areas where her physique won't be considered "intimidating.
" By working on your own mind on personal situation you can allow her to feel comfortable and secure with herself.
Again, find things in her that you appreciate other than her muscles.
3) Be athletic yourself.
This does not mean that you have to be a bodybuilder or football player! Many of these women are attracted to men who are athletic and take care of themselves, regardless of the sport.
If you run 5K's, play indoor soccer, or even just love doing pushups and chin-ups then that is fine.
The traits these women love - and find to be rare - are passion, humor, and intelligence along with the ability to at least take care of yourself.
Work on your athleticism even if it means that you have to take a year to get in shape, and your confidence (the most attractive trait to female "hard body types") should skyrocket.
There are many more traits and skills to ensure that you will be appealing to this type of woman.
Of course, you should always make sure that you protect her security, blend playfulness with determination, and be an overall good guy.
This will increase your odds of having mutually-enjoyable experiences with all types of women, not just muscular women.