This is one of the most challenging and painful moments in your life, if you don't handle it the right way, it will hurt you a lot and make you grow resentful and fragile.
Can you get over a breakup the right way? It's certainly very painful and will greatly shape your life with people and especially women.
I've seen it many times destroying people's life and very few know how to real deal with it.
It has happened to you before and will probably happen in the future.
Use this guide to help you cope with breakups.

• First thing you need to make sure of is:

Are you the one to blame for this breakup? Women can be very hurtful and irrational; unfortunately, we men do lots of damages to most relationship.
You must be a real man; if you are to blame, set up a meeting, if not possible, send her a hand written letter, telling her in a mature direct manner how you take all the blame for the situation and that you are sorry.
Most relationships can be fixed through the use of this method, if not; this is what you should do:

• Step one is: be human.
  

It's OK to have a break up, don't hurt yourself more, stop every negative self-talk you are directing at yourself.
You need to get around your true friends, be with people that like you and appreciate your presence, at first you will be very resentful, it's normal, the pain would go slowly,and certainly, it will be over soon.
Most people would give the advice to take a vacation, don't do it, the more you are busy working and fulfilling your life, the more you will heal rapidly.

• Step two is: keep a journal

If you don't already have a journal, buy one, it's the wisest decision you will be making.
Whenever you feel pain, take a pen and write about how you feel.
It's very mysterious, but the more you write about what's bordering you, the more it will be less hurtful to you.
My advice is: just write, don't pay attention to spelling or grammar, and just put those emotions on paper.
From time to time you should read what you've written in the past days.
You are going to notice something very powerful; you will see the pain going away little by little.

• Step three is: be great

A friend of mine once told me that the best revenge is looking good.
Go out, have fun with friends.
Buy some new clothes for yourself and meet new people.
Don't talk about your issue to anyone who hasn't asked you.
If you are asked "how are you?" answer with "I'm feeling great, thanks", even if you don't feel that way, by saying so you will start feeling it again.

• Step four is: (my favorite one) meet new women

Getting another woman in your life is simply the best way of getting over a breakup.
Don't get her for the sake of forgetting the first one, do it to enrich your life and to give the woman a great experience.
Be careful, don't ever tell your new girlfriend about your last relationship and the troubles you've been through, don't let her see a sweat.