Is your relationship going nowhere? Is your boyfriend not right for you anymore? Don't know how to break up with a boyfriend and not have to face the endless emotional drama that will follow even though you know it has to end? Well you are by no means alone in this as finding the right guy can be a challenge and even if you once were in love people change and so do our circumstances making even long term relationships sour at times.
That being said the task ahead is often not easy as some problems if you break up badly include:

• Endless calls to get you back
• Nasty untrue rumors spread by him or people around him and you
• Emotional blackmail
• Screaming matches, crying and emotional scenes
• In some more extreme cases, physical abuse!

Some mistakes that women make when breaking up with their boyfriend that can lead to these dire situations include:

• Breaking up over the phone
• Breaking up by text message (or Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, email etc)
• Not having real honest reasons for doing it.
  
• Lying to avoid the real issues
• Creating elaborate plans to make HIM break up with YOU
• Thinking that just because he is a man he should be able to take it.
  

No one has ever had a successful split using these methods as they all have something in common.
A lack of respect for the boyfriend that will be easily seen and will cut to the heart and also a lack of respect for YOURSELF! How to break up with a boyfriend the right way means having respect, you need to be confident and strong or cracks in your facade will be exploited by a desperate ex for revenge or trying to get you back.
Now while this is a foundation you need to have the actual break up conversation is the hardest and most important part of the whole process and if you get it wrong you may be sucked back into this bad relationship or it may explode and cause grief and heartache for months for both of you.