Breakup pain, however you look at it, is a serious thing.
A lot of people feel that breakup pain could easily be handled, only to find out that it is the most difficult thing to carry.
It is so easy for many to judge breakup pain, and the person dealing with the grief.
It is easy for people to label persons who are carrying breakup pain as stupid or plainly blind.
And the fact is: they are.
Their pain is making them act out of misery and fear.
They have nowhere to turn to.
This is precisely why people who are suffering major heartbreaks tend to stay away from people, even from their friends.
They do not want to be judged, and just want to keep the pain to themselves.
They do not want to complicate their situation by hearing people whom they feel do not understand.
When these things happened to me, I had to get hold of myself.
I easily discovered how this pain is causing me more trouble.
All my relationships get affected just because I allowed myself to wallow some more on my sadness.
Breakup pain is difficult because you seem to be the only who understands the situation.
Don't give up.
Just keep on healing.
And don't resist your friends much.
Maybe they are just giving you the reality check that you really need.
Sometimes, our breakup pains eat us up that we fail to see the bigger picture-that we can move on, that there is life after the separation.
We may feel a bit judged but you yourself change your perspective and once you start coming from the space of acceptance, you can get to appreciate what is being given to you.
Breakup pain makes everything impossible, even healing.
But when you get to see things through, you will realize how dealing with breakup pain could be made easy with a little help from your friends.