If you are looking for tips for getting your ex boyfriend back after the two of you broke up, all I can say is don't give up hope.
Couples reunite every single day and the reason for the break up doesn't matter.
I know you know of couple who have gotten back together after what even you thought was a hopeless situation.
But I will be blunt and tell you that you have to stop any wrong behaviors right now.
What do I mean by wrong behaviors...
But listen, if you have done some of this stuff, don't beat up on yourself, it just shows how passionately you want him back and that is okay.
It might make you feel better to know that there is a proven method for working through a break up and it is based on the psychology of a relationship.
When you understand the psychology of a break up you can not only get him back, but you can get him running back! Here are the tips for getting your ex back: 1.
The first thing to do is get your behaviors under control.
That means taking another look at that list above and stopping any type of bugging, begging or smothering.
Ask a friend to help you if you cannot seem to get this under control alone.
2.
Now, and this can be tough, I need you to allow yourself to accept that the two of you broke up.
You need to accept the reality of the situation and allow yourself to feel the emotions fully.
Denial will only keep you trapped in this destructive loop.
Now, notice that this does not mean that you have to accept that the relationship is beyond repair, all you have to do is get through your head that this happened and then you can start to reverse the whole mess.
3.
Once you feel strong enough, you can tell your ex that you have had time to think and you now see why your break up had to happen.
This is hard but can you see how this pulls him toward you, whereas the earlier actions pushed him away?
Couples reunite every single day and the reason for the break up doesn't matter.
I know you know of couple who have gotten back together after what even you thought was a hopeless situation.
But I will be blunt and tell you that you have to stop any wrong behaviors right now.
What do I mean by wrong behaviors...
- Texting him at all hours
- Sending voice mail messages to his phone or work
- Talking to his friends
- Talking to his family
- Following him around or having your friends spy on him
But listen, if you have done some of this stuff, don't beat up on yourself, it just shows how passionately you want him back and that is okay.
It might make you feel better to know that there is a proven method for working through a break up and it is based on the psychology of a relationship.
When you understand the psychology of a break up you can not only get him back, but you can get him running back! Here are the tips for getting your ex back: 1.
The first thing to do is get your behaviors under control.
That means taking another look at that list above and stopping any type of bugging, begging or smothering.
Ask a friend to help you if you cannot seem to get this under control alone.
2.
Now, and this can be tough, I need you to allow yourself to accept that the two of you broke up.
You need to accept the reality of the situation and allow yourself to feel the emotions fully.
Denial will only keep you trapped in this destructive loop.
Now, notice that this does not mean that you have to accept that the relationship is beyond repair, all you have to do is get through your head that this happened and then you can start to reverse the whole mess.
3.
Once you feel strong enough, you can tell your ex that you have had time to think and you now see why your break up had to happen.
This is hard but can you see how this pulls him toward you, whereas the earlier actions pushed him away?
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