Do men confuse you? They sure confuse me and I am one! My female friends are always coming to me for advice to know what their dates and boyfriends are thinking.
In this article I hope to share with you some of my insights so you can solve your own dating dilemmas.
  So you've been through a break up.
 I feel for you.
 It's not an easy thing to deal with, I know I've been there.
 Here's the two biggest pitfalls you should watch out for.
  Don't Contact Him I'm not saying you shouldn't be friends.
 Or even hook up again.
 Just not yet.
 Break - ups can leave your emotions in a crazy place, your not yourself.
 You also might want to get back together based on short term feelings and ignoring the bigger picture.
 Instead you should focus on getting over him.
 When you feel 100% over him that's when you can get back in contact.
 Then you can be friends, engage with sex-with-the-ex or even get back together if the cause of the break up no longer exists.
 Don't text, email, meet-up or anything.
 Don't even go to the same parties or ask about each other.
  Don't Hook Up Again For A While Going from girlfriend/boyfriend to friends with benefits is not an easy transition.
 Maybe you think you can handle it but if your not over him you'll probably want more.
 Therefore take the time to get over him first, then you can engage in post break up sex.