First, along with the thought and action, there are other layers involved in what makes any romantic effort in a marital relationship work or not.
You cannot stereotype each other, make assumptions about what he or she thinks, feeling threatened, intellectually or otherwise, ignoring feelings and so on.
You should investigate information that would assist you in educating yourself on fulfilling your roll as loving and dedicated spouse.
Secondly, it is very important to be yourself and accept your partner for who he or she is.
If you do not communicate with each other, you are headed for misunderstanding and discord in your marriage.
Make your relationship your first first priority over everything else in your life.
Do not make jokes about male or female behavior or conditions.
It may be funny at the moment, but it can become a part of how we view each other or fear how our partner views you.
Offer each other trust, hope, benefit of doubt and trying to understand how he or she feels before assuming any position.
It is best to begin slowly to build up to the more complicated aspects of growing a relationship together.
All it takes is one step in the right direction and you and your spouse will become closer.
Take time to do something you normally would not do that he or she is sure to enjoy.
Men, as well as women, love to have a full body massage.
Another romantic moment is when you both take a warm bath together.
Find a way to provide your love with something he or she can live without but truly enjoys.