Most adults experience a break up some time in their life.
Most of the time they move on, and eventually find themselves in another relationship.
Many want to get their ex back, but don't know how.
They often try things like trying to make their ex jealous, or appearing needy.
These things don't work.
What does? There are ways to get an ex back.
It will take some work.
You may have to change some habits, or behaviors.
But if you're willing to pay the price, it can be done.
You can get your ex back 90 percent of the time.
You must be willing to put in the work to learn and take the necessary steps to win your ex back.
The first step is to determine what caused the break up.
You cannot change the past, and have no control over what your ex did.
Avoid blame.
This will do you no good.
Reflect only on the part you played in the break up.
Learn from your mistakes, and use that to your advantage.
You may find that one event was the turning point in your relationship.
You may find it was a series of events, or behaviors that your ex could no longer deal with.
Either way you need to be very specific as you target what it was that caused the break up.
This way you are prepared to act differently when the situation arises again.
Figuring out what went wrong in the first place is vital if you want a long term relationship with your ex.
Next step, do not act needy.
You may feel like you cannot live without your ex.
This is normal.
But you do not want your ex to see those emotions.
It will only work against you.
Show instead your strength and self confidence.
Let those around you see that you are doing OK.
This will increase your chances of getting back together with your ex.
Last words of advice.
Do not try to make your ex jealous.
It is one of the worse things you can do.
Others' experiences have shown that this behavior shows your ex that you have moved on, and encourages them to do the same.
While you want your ex to see that you are surviving without him or her, you do not want to do anything that motivates them to move on without you.
By showing them your strength, and not your needy side, you are inspiring your ex to get back together with you.
Most of the time they move on, and eventually find themselves in another relationship.
Many want to get their ex back, but don't know how.
They often try things like trying to make their ex jealous, or appearing needy.
These things don't work.
What does? There are ways to get an ex back.
It will take some work.
You may have to change some habits, or behaviors.
But if you're willing to pay the price, it can be done.
You can get your ex back 90 percent of the time.
You must be willing to put in the work to learn and take the necessary steps to win your ex back.
The first step is to determine what caused the break up.
You cannot change the past, and have no control over what your ex did.
Avoid blame.
This will do you no good.
Reflect only on the part you played in the break up.
Learn from your mistakes, and use that to your advantage.
You may find that one event was the turning point in your relationship.
You may find it was a series of events, or behaviors that your ex could no longer deal with.
Either way you need to be very specific as you target what it was that caused the break up.
This way you are prepared to act differently when the situation arises again.
Figuring out what went wrong in the first place is vital if you want a long term relationship with your ex.
Next step, do not act needy.
You may feel like you cannot live without your ex.
This is normal.
But you do not want your ex to see those emotions.
It will only work against you.
Show instead your strength and self confidence.
Let those around you see that you are doing OK.
This will increase your chances of getting back together with your ex.
Last words of advice.
Do not try to make your ex jealous.
It is one of the worse things you can do.
Others' experiences have shown that this behavior shows your ex that you have moved on, and encourages them to do the same.
While you want your ex to see that you are surviving without him or her, you do not want to do anything that motivates them to move on without you.
By showing them your strength, and not your needy side, you are inspiring your ex to get back together with you.
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