When your relationship is in trouble you might not always realize how precious your boyfriend or girlfriend is.
Suddenly, when he/she walks out from your life it hits you that you so much love him/ her.
Do not rush to convince your ex to get back with you, for doing that would have the opposite effect.
Be careful that there are many things that you should watch out for, lest you would spook your ex away from you forever.
1.
Do not panic - stop thinking and/ or visualizing that your ex is having fun with someone else, while you are burning your heart out for him/ her here.
This would make you panic and then you would make mistakes.
2.
Do not harass your ex - he/ she would also be very upset and low after this break up.
Do not pester him or her for attention.
This makes you look like a thorough loser.
Instead let him/ her free from you.
Respect his/ her wishes and give him/her time and space wherein you should show that you have changed for the better.
3.
Do not play the jealousy card too hard - there is a misconception that if you flirt with another, your ex would come running back.
Not true.
Sometimes, if this is not done right, he or she would think that you have moved on and try to move on as well.
4.
Do not play the victim - even if you feel that you have been wronged when this relationship broke, do not project a victim image.
While this would get the pity of friends, it would push your ex away from you as he/ she would expect that you would be too emotional for any further interaction.
5.
Do not shut yourself away - contrary to common belief, disappearing from the scene does not create an urge to seek you out in your ex.
He/ she would rather go on with their lives thinking that you have put him/ her (your ex) behind and left because you did not want to remember the relationship any longer.
6.
Do not hang around your ex in the attempt to get his/ her attention back - no matter how subtle you are, if you turn up wherever your ex goes, you are bound to create negative impact.
Your ex would tend to avoid you more rather than thinking about making up.
7.
Do not forget to read the signs - there are signs in the way your ex speaks and behaves towards you.
Ensure that you read the signs correctly and pursue him/ her (your ex) only if it is worth the trouble.
Suddenly, when he/she walks out from your life it hits you that you so much love him/ her.
Do not rush to convince your ex to get back with you, for doing that would have the opposite effect.
Be careful that there are many things that you should watch out for, lest you would spook your ex away from you forever.
1.
Do not panic - stop thinking and/ or visualizing that your ex is having fun with someone else, while you are burning your heart out for him/ her here.
This would make you panic and then you would make mistakes.
2.
Do not harass your ex - he/ she would also be very upset and low after this break up.
Do not pester him or her for attention.
This makes you look like a thorough loser.
Instead let him/ her free from you.
Respect his/ her wishes and give him/her time and space wherein you should show that you have changed for the better.
3.
Do not play the jealousy card too hard - there is a misconception that if you flirt with another, your ex would come running back.
Not true.
Sometimes, if this is not done right, he or she would think that you have moved on and try to move on as well.
4.
Do not play the victim - even if you feel that you have been wronged when this relationship broke, do not project a victim image.
While this would get the pity of friends, it would push your ex away from you as he/ she would expect that you would be too emotional for any further interaction.
5.
Do not shut yourself away - contrary to common belief, disappearing from the scene does not create an urge to seek you out in your ex.
He/ she would rather go on with their lives thinking that you have put him/ her (your ex) behind and left because you did not want to remember the relationship any longer.
6.
Do not hang around your ex in the attempt to get his/ her attention back - no matter how subtle you are, if you turn up wherever your ex goes, you are bound to create negative impact.
Your ex would tend to avoid you more rather than thinking about making up.
7.
Do not forget to read the signs - there are signs in the way your ex speaks and behaves towards you.
Ensure that you read the signs correctly and pursue him/ her (your ex) only if it is worth the trouble.
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