Have you heard this before? "I need my space!" It is something I hear a lot from men, and the ladies are starting to use it more and more.
It often starts with some telltale signs.
If a man stops calling, a woman starts spending more time with her friends, or your partner seems to have more things popping up at work than ever.
Perhaps you sense a general attitude that makes you feel you are being avoided.
At this point, it's natural to be concerned, but we generally give them the benefit of the doubt.
Now, what happens if you discover that they haven't been where they said they were? You find out on the grapevine that they weren't working overtime, but instead were out with some friends.
Your suspicions are raised, and you have a natural tendency to...
confront them.
Pushing versus Pulling This is absolutely the wrong way about it.
What you must understand is that every time you confront your ex on an issue regarding their freedom, you are pushing them away.
You push them, and they naturally will pull away.
It is important to know how your words can affect your partner in a relationship.
Little things can have big consequences.
So how do you stop a break up, even if you notice the telltale signs, or have been given the 'I need space!' ultimatum? You need to pull your ex towards you.
Pulling is attraction...
not just on a physical level, although that helps.