How many times are you going to ask yourself can my marriage be saved again, even though you continue to disappoint or anger her? If she marches out the door this time, it might be the last time.
Remember what you did to convince your wife/girlfriend that it wouldn't happen again? It doesn't matter if you have a licensed marriage, a common-law marriage, or a live in, a wife is the girlfriend and likewise a girlfriend is the wife.
If you are in need of a reality check, buckle up, you're going to have a head-on.
To make a marriage last you need to work at it, more than just taking the garbage out once a week.
It's damage control time once again, you need to convince your wife/girlfriend you are turning over a new leaf.
Here are few tips that should help you avoid divorce/relationship break-up.
A.
Show Her Attention! What better way to take her mind off your shortfalls and get back into her good graces than by taking an interest in her hobbies, housework, career path, vehicle maintenance, home repair, or watch her favorite shows with her.
Before you have "The Talk" you could memorize the list of all that you are dedicating Priority One towards; plus you should already know what her favorite TV shows or Movies are.
Better yet start a list on the computer in Word or whatever and write down all the deficiencies that comes to mind around the house and yard.
After you have a list ask your wife if she has anything to add, and watch her eyes light up, she will have some input.
Follow through on the work, if you aren't mechanically inclined hire it done, make sure to Walk the Walk.
B.
Learn to say "I Love You" more often! Now if you are a man and have problems telling your wife "I Love You" like most of us do, try practicing in front of the mirror.
Then you can see if your sincerity is shining through or if you appear disingenuous; because she will be able to tell if you aren't honest with those 3 Huge Words.
They should be in your root vocabulary, long before you said "I Do" you should have "I Love You" down pat! You need to be looking in her eyes to come across as the loving soul-mate.
She needs confirmation that you still love her.
The great thing about giving wives/girlfriends a lot of sweet talk, is the fact that it cost nothing and they really appreciate it, not that they don't enjoy getting trinkets.
They should already have a band of gold, the licensed ones anyway! It's a known fact that most women would rather feel that their man really cares for them with endearing words of love, and times as they are, spending money on nonessentials is not encouraged.
Unless you really messed up bad, then it could be a wise investment.
C.
Learn to Listen and Use Words Wisely! When she decides it's time for "The Talk" listen to what she has to say and don't interrupt.
Try processing all the information while she is giving you a piece of her mind.
Most of what she is saying you will agree with, some you might not, if you really want to save your marriage/living arrangement.
Choose your words wisely and don't make the problem worse.
Replying in a defensive mode can end your relationship quick; you need to be speaking with a supersensitive tone and not start ranting.
If you fly off the handle here, you might as well pack your bags, because you will be splitting the sheets soon after.
It is better to have your emotions in check and speak with understanding, common sense, pace your words so they don't fly out of your mouth, and know exactly what words you are going to use before you say them.
Whether you are legally or common-law married or just living together; you should be able to avoid divorce/ relationship break-up if you apply the suggestions above.
She is your Best Friend you need to treat her that way! With any luck this will be the last time you will ask; can my marriage be saved again.
Remember Real Men don't hit Women only outraged undeveloped boys do.
If you witness it happening be a Man and step in, Humanity will admire you!
Remember what you did to convince your wife/girlfriend that it wouldn't happen again? It doesn't matter if you have a licensed marriage, a common-law marriage, or a live in, a wife is the girlfriend and likewise a girlfriend is the wife.
If you are in need of a reality check, buckle up, you're going to have a head-on.
To make a marriage last you need to work at it, more than just taking the garbage out once a week.
It's damage control time once again, you need to convince your wife/girlfriend you are turning over a new leaf.
Here are few tips that should help you avoid divorce/relationship break-up.
A.
Show Her Attention! What better way to take her mind off your shortfalls and get back into her good graces than by taking an interest in her hobbies, housework, career path, vehicle maintenance, home repair, or watch her favorite shows with her.
Before you have "The Talk" you could memorize the list of all that you are dedicating Priority One towards; plus you should already know what her favorite TV shows or Movies are.
Better yet start a list on the computer in Word or whatever and write down all the deficiencies that comes to mind around the house and yard.
After you have a list ask your wife if she has anything to add, and watch her eyes light up, she will have some input.
Follow through on the work, if you aren't mechanically inclined hire it done, make sure to Walk the Walk.
B.
Learn to say "I Love You" more often! Now if you are a man and have problems telling your wife "I Love You" like most of us do, try practicing in front of the mirror.
Then you can see if your sincerity is shining through or if you appear disingenuous; because she will be able to tell if you aren't honest with those 3 Huge Words.
They should be in your root vocabulary, long before you said "I Do" you should have "I Love You" down pat! You need to be looking in her eyes to come across as the loving soul-mate.
She needs confirmation that you still love her.
The great thing about giving wives/girlfriends a lot of sweet talk, is the fact that it cost nothing and they really appreciate it, not that they don't enjoy getting trinkets.
They should already have a band of gold, the licensed ones anyway! It's a known fact that most women would rather feel that their man really cares for them with endearing words of love, and times as they are, spending money on nonessentials is not encouraged.
Unless you really messed up bad, then it could be a wise investment.
C.
Learn to Listen and Use Words Wisely! When she decides it's time for "The Talk" listen to what she has to say and don't interrupt.
Try processing all the information while she is giving you a piece of her mind.
Most of what she is saying you will agree with, some you might not, if you really want to save your marriage/living arrangement.
Choose your words wisely and don't make the problem worse.
Replying in a defensive mode can end your relationship quick; you need to be speaking with a supersensitive tone and not start ranting.
If you fly off the handle here, you might as well pack your bags, because you will be splitting the sheets soon after.
It is better to have your emotions in check and speak with understanding, common sense, pace your words so they don't fly out of your mouth, and know exactly what words you are going to use before you say them.
Whether you are legally or common-law married or just living together; you should be able to avoid divorce/ relationship break-up if you apply the suggestions above.
She is your Best Friend you need to treat her that way! With any luck this will be the last time you will ask; can my marriage be saved again.
Remember Real Men don't hit Women only outraged undeveloped boys do.
If you witness it happening be a Man and step in, Humanity will admire you!
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