They say that after an ugly breakup it is impossible for the dumped partner to lead a normal and happy life once again.
To many this is true but you can prove all of them wrong and get your ex back - provided you know how.
The best starting point in the process of reconciliation is to develop a positive frame of mind.
You need to have an infallible sense of self-confidence in your ability to rectify a damaged situation and more importantly believe that the love you both have shared is strong enough to survive such temporary upheavals.
It is time to make hard decisions right now.
Is your ex really worth all the pain and tears? Are you abundantly sure that it is your ex who can make the biggest difference in your life? Would it be impossible for you to survive without the presence of this person? If you can answer these questions frankly and honestly, perhaps you can also defer the urgent need to call up your ex and fix the problem.
Take a close look at yourself in the mirror.
How do you feel about yourself? Are you still the same old self who once had magnetic influence on others, including your ex? To put life back on track, perhaps this is an area that you need to seriously revise and rework on.
One of the most difficult tasks is to do self-analysis, but you can do it, if you desperately want to start living again.
Self-improvement can work wonders not only for the person concerned but even on the person who dumped you.
The urge will be strong for your ex to come back to you, once your free spirit to embrace life shows up.
Never express your internal agenda of reconciling with your ex, as this can negatively impact the developments.
Let things happen naturally, and let your ex ponder for as long as he or she likes about returning.
You would be surprised, at the speed with which you can manage to get your ex back if you appear self-confident and ready to move on!