There is, undoubtedly, massive amounts of information on how to get your ex back available to those who seek it online and in bookstores.
You've read all there is to read and now, not only are you heartbroken, you're also extremely confused.
Read on for the basic do's and don'ts on how to get your ex back.
These tips are simple and to the point and will help take the guessing work out of winning your ex back.
DO'S Work on Yourself When you go through a breakup it is easy to become insecure about yourself and to beat yourself up about the reasons for the breakup.
The best thing you can do to get your ex back is to snap out of it immediately.
There is nothing attractive about someone who doesn't even believe in themselves.
Think Positive Never give up hope if you truly want to get your ex back.
You have to envision yourself winning your lover back in order for it to become a reality.
If you are constantly thinking in a negative manner then you will only (even if subconsciously) do things that will only hinder your efforts.
If you think you will get back with your ex, then you will most likely get back with your ex.
DON'TS Behaving Badly There is nothing sexy about a person who breaks down after a breakup.
The worst thing you can do if you want your ex back is to start becoming self destructive and acting in a destructive manner.
Don't go out binge drinking, drunk dialing, talking trash to his or her friends.
All of these things are HUGE no-no's.
Being Pushy and Crude Being pushy and crude toward your ex will only make him or her want to run further away from you.
If you feel the need to put a time limit on when they have to make a decision about whether or not you two have a fighting chance...
don't! Again, this will only make them want to distance themselves from you.
Keep your goal in mind, you want to get your ex back, not push them away.