If your relationship has broken up and you didn't want it to, you are not alone.
If you are wondering how to win your ex back then read on.
Getting your ex back is possible, it is not an instant process, and it takes time.
However the process works if carried out and it will give you the greatest possibility of success.
First, you need to step away.
Accept what has happened.
If you want to win your ex back you really need to do this with no begging or pleading, and even accept it if your ex already has someone else.
From experience I can tell you that a lot of pushing from you will give them some common ground that they may not otherwise have and it will work against you by pushing them closer together.
So walk away, no texting, no phone, no email, and steer clear of your ex right now.
Next, take your mind off your ex; do not try to win them back now: instead, focus on yourself.
Being dumped in spite of your pleading can be a big hit to your confidence.
You need to get your confidence and self-esteem back.
This means taking care of you: do this with proper diet, sleep, and exercise.
Stay away from drinking, drugs, or anything else you might medicate with to squelch the pain.
Spend time with friends, focus on a hobby or work project, in other words get involved in something that you can care about.
If work is a problem right now then see about a vacation: just get into something that you care about that will help you build yourself.
You need interests in your life that will get you out of bed in the morning, and not just get you out of bed, but as you improve yourself and get your body fit, to get you out of bed with a smile on your face.
This will happen as you start caring for and developing yourself; as a result of this you are looking better, feeling better, and getting compliments.
This time of focusing just on you will last 3 or 4 weeks, maybe longer.
At some point you will begin to evaluate the relationship that you had and take an objective look at what you really want in a relationship.
Ask yourself if you still want your ex back.
If you do, then begin the next step.
OK, finally if you still want to win your ex back then it is time to contact your ex and see if he or she will meet you for coffee or something else easy.
The purpose of the meeting is to present the new improved you and not to lay a sales pitch down about putting the relationship back together.
Keep it light and be complimentary but don't go overboard.
At some point look at the time and say you have another appointment.
Tell your ex it was great to see them and be off.
If you are wondering how to win your ex back then read on.
Getting your ex back is possible, it is not an instant process, and it takes time.
However the process works if carried out and it will give you the greatest possibility of success.
First, you need to step away.
Accept what has happened.
If you want to win your ex back you really need to do this with no begging or pleading, and even accept it if your ex already has someone else.
From experience I can tell you that a lot of pushing from you will give them some common ground that they may not otherwise have and it will work against you by pushing them closer together.
So walk away, no texting, no phone, no email, and steer clear of your ex right now.
Next, take your mind off your ex; do not try to win them back now: instead, focus on yourself.
Being dumped in spite of your pleading can be a big hit to your confidence.
You need to get your confidence and self-esteem back.
This means taking care of you: do this with proper diet, sleep, and exercise.
Stay away from drinking, drugs, or anything else you might medicate with to squelch the pain.
Spend time with friends, focus on a hobby or work project, in other words get involved in something that you can care about.
If work is a problem right now then see about a vacation: just get into something that you care about that will help you build yourself.
You need interests in your life that will get you out of bed in the morning, and not just get you out of bed, but as you improve yourself and get your body fit, to get you out of bed with a smile on your face.
This will happen as you start caring for and developing yourself; as a result of this you are looking better, feeling better, and getting compliments.
This time of focusing just on you will last 3 or 4 weeks, maybe longer.
At some point you will begin to evaluate the relationship that you had and take an objective look at what you really want in a relationship.
Ask yourself if you still want your ex back.
If you do, then begin the next step.
OK, finally if you still want to win your ex back then it is time to contact your ex and see if he or she will meet you for coffee or something else easy.
The purpose of the meeting is to present the new improved you and not to lay a sales pitch down about putting the relationship back together.
Keep it light and be complimentary but don't go overboard.
At some point look at the time and say you have another appointment.
Tell your ex it was great to see them and be off.
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