For all that it seems impossible sometimes; there are really a lot of ways to attract men.
And you don't have to be a super model with legs up to your ears either.
(Actually, a lot of men don't like the popular, ultra skinny look.
They say they like a woman with more meat on her bones.
) Really, regardless of what you look like, attracting a man is mostly in the attitude.
Here are a couple of things to think about.
The Location: Let's face it, a wallflower is not attractive, but then neither is a rude loud mouth.
What most people don't realize is that these labels have less to do with the person, than with where they are.
Someone who is loud and peppy and bright is going to get some nasty looks at the local library, while someone who is quiet and patient won't get noticed at the dance club.
And you're more likely to meet a man who suits you at a place you feel comfortable, then at the local hot spot.
The key to most ways to attract men is to put you at the center of the picture.
The location is your background, and it needs to flatter you just as much as your clothes do.
The Action: Did you know that the human eye notices motion before it sees color, shape or size? You can't attract men if they don't see you, and if you want them to see you, you need to make a move.
In a quiet library, or at a park, it can be as simple as making eye contact and waving, though sitting down next to a cute guy still works better (the more you move, the more they notice, after all).
At a club, or any place where there is a great deal of motion and noise already, you will need to take a larger step to get noticed.
Going directly up to the guy you are interested in and asking him to dance usually works.
The Man: The ways to attract men are many and varied, and none of them work on every man.
One man sitting with his friends at a club might be flattered at being asked to dance; another will be annoyed with the interruption.
Like the location and the action, make sure the man suits you, and make sure that you approach at a time and in a way that suits him.
And you don't have to be a super model with legs up to your ears either.
(Actually, a lot of men don't like the popular, ultra skinny look.
They say they like a woman with more meat on her bones.
) Really, regardless of what you look like, attracting a man is mostly in the attitude.
Here are a couple of things to think about.
The Location: Let's face it, a wallflower is not attractive, but then neither is a rude loud mouth.
What most people don't realize is that these labels have less to do with the person, than with where they are.
Someone who is loud and peppy and bright is going to get some nasty looks at the local library, while someone who is quiet and patient won't get noticed at the dance club.
And you're more likely to meet a man who suits you at a place you feel comfortable, then at the local hot spot.
The key to most ways to attract men is to put you at the center of the picture.
The location is your background, and it needs to flatter you just as much as your clothes do.
The Action: Did you know that the human eye notices motion before it sees color, shape or size? You can't attract men if they don't see you, and if you want them to see you, you need to make a move.
In a quiet library, or at a park, it can be as simple as making eye contact and waving, though sitting down next to a cute guy still works better (the more you move, the more they notice, after all).
At a club, or any place where there is a great deal of motion and noise already, you will need to take a larger step to get noticed.
Going directly up to the guy you are interested in and asking him to dance usually works.
The Man: The ways to attract men are many and varied, and none of them work on every man.
One man sitting with his friends at a club might be flattered at being asked to dance; another will be annoyed with the interruption.
Like the location and the action, make sure the man suits you, and make sure that you approach at a time and in a way that suits him.
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