If your husband left you for another woman but you still love him, you're in a tough spot.
Probably most people in your life are trying to be supportive.
They tell you that you're better off without him.
They say that if he's willing to cheat on you or leave you for someone else then he doesn't deserve you.
And they tell you that you will make it, that you're strong and you can move on and be happy again.
But if you still love your husband, these things can be hard to hear.
Even though you might even believe them, and need to hear them at some point, part of you still wants your husband back.
It keeps you up at night that he left you for someone else.
What could she have that you don't? And then there's the nagging thoughts that maybe you drove him away.
That if you could just get him back you'd change things and your marriage could be saved.
Let's get down to the nitty gritty.
If your husband left you for another woman and you want to get him back, where should you start? First, let's talk about what won't help you get him back.
These things include: crying, begging, pleading, bargaining, blackmail, manipulation, lying, or trickery.
Even if they seem to work for the short term, they won't help you keep your husband.
He might pay attention to you for a little while longer, but he'll still go back to the other woman at the end of the day.
Now let's talk about what WILL help you get your husband back from the other woman.
The best thing you can do right now is show him that you don't need him.
After all, he's going to expect you to beg and plead with him to come back.
He's going to expect you to be uncooperative about a divorce or separation.
And he's going to expect you to be there with open arms if he decides to come back.
That's why the above list of things won't work.
They leave you wide open to his control.
He will always have the upper hand and he knows it.
If you show him that you don't need him, that you're strong and can move on without him, it will drive him crazy! He will wonder why you are moving on so easily, and it will hurt his pride and his ego.
The secret is, if your husband left you for another woman, he still wants you to want him to come back.
If you act like you don't, he'll start calling you and making excuses to see you just to see if you'll fall into old patterns and show him you still love him.
So it's critical that you don't do it.
Be as strong as possible.
Even if you are dying on the inside, don't show him!
Probably most people in your life are trying to be supportive.
They tell you that you're better off without him.
They say that if he's willing to cheat on you or leave you for someone else then he doesn't deserve you.
And they tell you that you will make it, that you're strong and you can move on and be happy again.
But if you still love your husband, these things can be hard to hear.
Even though you might even believe them, and need to hear them at some point, part of you still wants your husband back.
It keeps you up at night that he left you for someone else.
What could she have that you don't? And then there's the nagging thoughts that maybe you drove him away.
That if you could just get him back you'd change things and your marriage could be saved.
Let's get down to the nitty gritty.
If your husband left you for another woman and you want to get him back, where should you start? First, let's talk about what won't help you get him back.
These things include: crying, begging, pleading, bargaining, blackmail, manipulation, lying, or trickery.
Even if they seem to work for the short term, they won't help you keep your husband.
He might pay attention to you for a little while longer, but he'll still go back to the other woman at the end of the day.
Now let's talk about what WILL help you get your husband back from the other woman.
The best thing you can do right now is show him that you don't need him.
After all, he's going to expect you to beg and plead with him to come back.
He's going to expect you to be uncooperative about a divorce or separation.
And he's going to expect you to be there with open arms if he decides to come back.
That's why the above list of things won't work.
They leave you wide open to his control.
He will always have the upper hand and he knows it.
If you show him that you don't need him, that you're strong and can move on without him, it will drive him crazy! He will wonder why you are moving on so easily, and it will hurt his pride and his ego.
The secret is, if your husband left you for another woman, he still wants you to want him to come back.
If you act like you don't, he'll start calling you and making excuses to see you just to see if you'll fall into old patterns and show him you still love him.
So it's critical that you don't do it.
Be as strong as possible.
Even if you are dying on the inside, don't show him!
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