It's really tough to try and convince an ex girlfriend to come back to you, if she is dead set against it. In fact, in that kind of situation, it's pretty close to impossible and you will be wasting all of your time and energy if you try and convince her that she should come back to you. However, if you want to get your girlfriend back fast and you can make her feel the same way, then you have a real good shot at it actually happening.
And that is what ends up making it hard for most guys, because they don't try to make her feel the same way, all they try to do is to persuade her and use logical arguments to make her see that they are the "right" one for them.
Here's what you need to do if you want to make her feel the same way about you and get your girlfriend back fast:
1. Never come right out and say that you want her back.
At least not until you are really sure that she is feeling the same exact way. This is not about playing games with her mind or anything like that, it's about the fact that if she knows exactly what you are trying to do, it's not going to work. Part of getting back your girlfriend is using the element of surprise, and if you pass up the surprise part of it, well, it's just not going to work.
2. Flirt with her, but make it seem like it is just for fun.
Whenever you get to see your ex girlfriend or talk to her, go right ahead and flirt with her, but make sure that it just seems like it is for fun, not because you are trying to lead up to something. The reason for this is, that you want to make her start feeling comfortable flirting back and forth with you, but again, you don't wan to add in any pressure and make her feel like you are just doing it to win her back.
3. Get her to spend some "alone" time with you and build up to the point where things get physical.
In all my experiences, the easiest way for a guy to get his girlfriend back is for the two of you to become physical with each other again. Instead of trying to talk it out, you need to use the power of romance and seduction to make her feel like she desires to be with you again. From there, you can talk about it all that you want, but you need to make that physical connection with her again.
And that is what ends up making it hard for most guys, because they don't try to make her feel the same way, all they try to do is to persuade her and use logical arguments to make her see that they are the "right" one for them.
Here's what you need to do if you want to make her feel the same way about you and get your girlfriend back fast:
1. Never come right out and say that you want her back.
At least not until you are really sure that she is feeling the same exact way. This is not about playing games with her mind or anything like that, it's about the fact that if she knows exactly what you are trying to do, it's not going to work. Part of getting back your girlfriend is using the element of surprise, and if you pass up the surprise part of it, well, it's just not going to work.
2. Flirt with her, but make it seem like it is just for fun.
Whenever you get to see your ex girlfriend or talk to her, go right ahead and flirt with her, but make sure that it just seems like it is for fun, not because you are trying to lead up to something. The reason for this is, that you want to make her start feeling comfortable flirting back and forth with you, but again, you don't wan to add in any pressure and make her feel like you are just doing it to win her back.
3. Get her to spend some "alone" time with you and build up to the point where things get physical.
In all my experiences, the easiest way for a guy to get his girlfriend back is for the two of you to become physical with each other again. Instead of trying to talk it out, you need to use the power of romance and seduction to make her feel like she desires to be with you again. From there, you can talk about it all that you want, but you need to make that physical connection with her again.
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