First of all get your facts right.
Its nothing big.
Countless couples break up every day.
Again, they patch up very soon.
So its not that a messy and bad situation you are thinking about.
Just be cool and calm and you can easily get back with your ex.
Just follow these simple steps and you will get back with your ex sooner than you thought.
Here are the simple steps I was talking about: Agree with the break up Firstly, agree with the present situation.
If it is a break up then accept it and deal with this fact.
Do not keep on fighting with your ex endlessly to re consider this decision.
Let the break up happen.
There is no use fighting over what you cannot stop.
Once the situation is set then take a deep breathe and think of the next step.
If the break up is official, how are you going to patch up? Think about that.
Do not think about denying the break up and drag a relation which is already lost.
Once your partner has asked for a break up, better move on and think of something to get your ex back.
Give some time It is not recommended to start preparing for a patch up just after the break up.
A gap of few days or few weeks depending upon the situation is highly advised.
It gives time to both the people involved in a break up.
In this mean time, try to do something else to shift your mood.
Its better to go ahead with a good and positive mood.
If you keep on mulling on how to get back with ex during this break period, it will affect your chances of getting back your ex severely.
So, have patience and wait a bit.
Basically I talked about being calm and positive here.
Sometime this is the most important thing required to deal with biggest problems of our life.
Try it out.