I admit it.
I can be a real sneaky sun of a gun.
But you know what they say.
All is fair in love and war.
And let me tell you, when you're fighting to get your ex back, it IS war.
Well, don't worry.
I'm going to give you a sure fire plan to have your ex crawling back to you on hands and knees.
By the time you are done implementing this, you'll be back together with the one you love.
Though sometimes I can't imagine why you'd want to.
But that's another issue altogether.
Okay, this is going to work regardless of whether your ex is seeing somebody else or not.
As long as they're not legally tied down, you're in like Flint.
First thing you have to do is work out your battle plan.
This is going to be a two pronged attack.
The first prong is getting on with your own life.
Yeah, I know...
you feel like garbage and don't really want to do anything.
But you MUST get out of the house.
And, there are two things that you MUST do.
The first thing is to go and treat yourself to something.
It doesn't have to be anything big but it has to be something that's going to make you feel good.
You need to put a real smile on your face if you're going to be able to pull off the second prong of this attack.
What is that exactly? You're going to go out on a date.
It doesn't matter with who.
Just find a warm body who'd be willing to spend an evening at a bar or a restaurant with you.
The important thing is you MUST make sure that your ex sees you out with your date.
This will have them seething and also second guessing their decision to end it with you.
That's when you unleash the final part of the attack.
You call your ex and ask for a meeting.
It can be over lunch or even just a snack.
Make sure it's in a public place so you're not tempted to make a scene.
At this meeting, you simply tell your ex that you realize you made some mistakes (yes, eat some humble pie) and say you're sorry.
Then, ask for another chance.
Trust me on this, nine times out of ten, your ex will be so dumbfounded by this approach that they'll be happy to take you back.
However, should this not work, don't panic.
I've recently read a great book on this subject that I've reviewed below.
I am sure it will help you a lot.
Yes, I know...
I'm sneaky.
But trust me, this stuff works.
To YOUR Relationship Success, Martin J Waterson