Love is a wonderful experience. But what can be disturbing is not being sure if your boyfriend loves you. Sometimes you feel that he loves you and sometimes you feel he doesn't. The question may drive you crazy. As you will agree, love is about feelings. Some girls are carried away by their boyfriend's attraction to their physique. If your boyfriend admires your looks, it is no indication of love. If he enjoys having sex with you, that is no indication of love either. On the other hand, his admiration of your beauty and passion for lovemaking may only result in his taking advantage of you and dumping you later on some pretext. Unfortunately, many young women don't realize this. You need to find out whether he cares for you. If he doesn't, then there is no love.
Therefore, it is essential that you look for these signs to find an answer to the question ‘How can I tell if my boyfriend loves me?'
Does he listen to you?: Anyone who cares for you will be interested in knowing about your thoughts and feelings. Listening to someone is the best way to show that you love that person, care for that person and value that person. Even if you are a voluble person, your lover will not get bored. He may try to make you mend your garrulity for your own good but won't feel bored. It is easy to find whether your boyfriend listens to you or just pretends. You only have to ask a few questions about the things you have told him. You will know from his response whether he was listening to you or was putting on an act.
Does he buy you gifts?: Buying gifts can't be made a condition for the existence of love. But a lover will like to give something to his girlfriend. The gifts don't have to be expensive. A gift could be simple and inexpensive but it should show his love. Some men will give you impressive gifts at the beginning to win you over and once they know that you have fallen for them, they will stop giving you gifts. This cannot be considered true love. Therefore, you need to use your judgment while considering gifts.
How well does he know you?: Any person should know a lot about the person he or she loves. If you love a man, you make efforts to understand him, his character, personality, likes, dislikes etc. Your boyfriend should also be interested in you. Does he care to find out about your childhood, your hobbies and interests? Does he know your nickname in school? Has he bothered to ask you about the details of your family? Does he know in which school your younger brother or sister is studying? A negative answer to some of these questions should make you wonder whether your boyfriend really loves you.
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Therefore, it is essential that you look for these signs to find an answer to the question ‘How can I tell if my boyfriend loves me?'
Does he listen to you?: Anyone who cares for you will be interested in knowing about your thoughts and feelings. Listening to someone is the best way to show that you love that person, care for that person and value that person. Even if you are a voluble person, your lover will not get bored. He may try to make you mend your garrulity for your own good but won't feel bored. It is easy to find whether your boyfriend listens to you or just pretends. You only have to ask a few questions about the things you have told him. You will know from his response whether he was listening to you or was putting on an act.
Does he buy you gifts?: Buying gifts can't be made a condition for the existence of love. But a lover will like to give something to his girlfriend. The gifts don't have to be expensive. A gift could be simple and inexpensive but it should show his love. Some men will give you impressive gifts at the beginning to win you over and once they know that you have fallen for them, they will stop giving you gifts. This cannot be considered true love. Therefore, you need to use your judgment while considering gifts.
How well does he know you?: Any person should know a lot about the person he or she loves. If you love a man, you make efforts to understand him, his character, personality, likes, dislikes etc. Your boyfriend should also be interested in you. Does he care to find out about your childhood, your hobbies and interests? Does he know your nickname in school? Has he bothered to ask you about the details of your family? Does he know in which school your younger brother or sister is studying? A negative answer to some of these questions should make you wonder whether your boyfriend really loves you.
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