Getting your ex boyfriend back may not require that you pull up a gun and go mad at every girl you see around him; nah, that is not gonna ever work. It is going to scare him away completely. I started with that line because I know how hurtful if must have felt for you when he left you. You probably have lived all of your life for him and now he just leaves you in the middle of nowhere. You wonder all day, "what am I gonna do without him?" But that is where we need to get it all started; you can do a whole lot of things without him. As a matter of fact, it is the things that you do without him that will make him come back to you. How do I mean?
You see, men hate dependent women. Most men do not understand why a woman should be solely dependent; it looks to them as if you are just being a burden. Why do you think men leave their fine ladies at home to go look for some ugly girl out there? It is because the lady at home has probably not added any value to herself and so she remains the "same old girl", nothing has changed. You've got to learn the spice; you've got to learn how to keep a man coming.
Getting your ex boyfriend back is not rocket science; it only requires some critical reasoning now. First, what made him leave? What were him complaints before he left you? For different men, there are different reasons but it all boils down to what you are doing wrong or what you are not doing right. Just get to the root of it and find out exactly what made him leave. If it is all your fault, then learn from your mistakes and attempt to become a better person.
Most importantly, stop sucking up to him. Be a wo-MAN now. You have got to take a stand. I do not mean that you should start making him jealous by running after other men, that will not work; but I mean you should just take your stand and move on with your life. Advance in your career, have fun, learn new things; just add value anyhow. Somehow, he is going to see that you are doing fine without him and it is going to hurt him. A man is kind of turned on by brevity and independence in women so you have got to get that.
You can still be friends with him all the while; as a matter of fact, keep in touch but do not suck up. You can ask him for a talk over coffee sometime and let him know you still care about him. He will probably want his girl back. So the secret is, deal with your wrongs, move on with your life and don't suck up. Then leave him to discover the new you; because he will!
Getting your ex boyfriend back don't have to require violence or desperation; just be patient and he will come crawling back to you sooner than you expect.
You see, men hate dependent women. Most men do not understand why a woman should be solely dependent; it looks to them as if you are just being a burden. Why do you think men leave their fine ladies at home to go look for some ugly girl out there? It is because the lady at home has probably not added any value to herself and so she remains the "same old girl", nothing has changed. You've got to learn the spice; you've got to learn how to keep a man coming.
Getting your ex boyfriend back is not rocket science; it only requires some critical reasoning now. First, what made him leave? What were him complaints before he left you? For different men, there are different reasons but it all boils down to what you are doing wrong or what you are not doing right. Just get to the root of it and find out exactly what made him leave. If it is all your fault, then learn from your mistakes and attempt to become a better person.
Most importantly, stop sucking up to him. Be a wo-MAN now. You have got to take a stand. I do not mean that you should start making him jealous by running after other men, that will not work; but I mean you should just take your stand and move on with your life. Advance in your career, have fun, learn new things; just add value anyhow. Somehow, he is going to see that you are doing fine without him and it is going to hurt him. A man is kind of turned on by brevity and independence in women so you have got to get that.
You can still be friends with him all the while; as a matter of fact, keep in touch but do not suck up. You can ask him for a talk over coffee sometime and let him know you still care about him. He will probably want his girl back. So the secret is, deal with your wrongs, move on with your life and don't suck up. Then leave him to discover the new you; because he will!
Getting your ex boyfriend back don't have to require violence or desperation; just be patient and he will come crawling back to you sooner than you expect.
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