You were badly hurt when your relationship ended.
Your lover has walked out on you and you are at a quandary how to win back your ex.
Your goal is to win him/her back has to take some planning and your desire to get together with your loved one once again has to wait.
It would be a great mistake to get back your ex within days of your breaking up, especially, if it was a messy affair.
So be sure, you have taken the time to sort out yourself and other things carefully.
In the order of priority, you are the number 1 concern.
You should always consider yourself first and that means you keep away from your ex by avoiding any contact at all.
It is not easy but it is essential to make things right again.
If you have communication with your ex-lover, you are likely to weaken and place yourself in a vulnerable and negative position.
This is important now since your ex expressed the need to be alone or to be away from you.
Do not make the effort to call on your ex for now he/she finds you less appealing in your desperate and needy demeanor.
So back off, instead find a strategy how to win back your ex.
Spend sometime sorting out yourself but not all the time.
You are tempted to be away from the madding crowd, feel devastated and indulge in self pity; at the same time, focus on your past.
This is a surefire way to be depressed and recovery from depression will be a serious mental problem.
Get out and start reconnecting with family and friends, collect new ones.
Enjoy the fun of socializing and become a fun person.
It is not easy but this way will facilitate your strategy to win your ex back.
As you slowly recover from the break up, reflect about your role.
It is difficult to accept a mistake but you have to rectify whatever wrong you have committed.
Remember, it takes two to forge a relationship as it also takes two to break it.
You are now clear on the mistakes that cause the break up so it is time for you to rectify them.
Your ex will be mystified how well you reacted to the separation and he/she is likely to hear how well you have coped with the situation.
He/she will begin thinking about you and the happiness you once shared.
Whoever makes the first move to communicate is not important.
Soon you will get together and be able to iron out your differences like two matured individuals.
Problems can be resolved and relationships repaired.
You have to work on and use your best efforts on how to win back your ex.
Your lover has walked out on you and you are at a quandary how to win back your ex.
Your goal is to win him/her back has to take some planning and your desire to get together with your loved one once again has to wait.
It would be a great mistake to get back your ex within days of your breaking up, especially, if it was a messy affair.
So be sure, you have taken the time to sort out yourself and other things carefully.
In the order of priority, you are the number 1 concern.
You should always consider yourself first and that means you keep away from your ex by avoiding any contact at all.
It is not easy but it is essential to make things right again.
If you have communication with your ex-lover, you are likely to weaken and place yourself in a vulnerable and negative position.
This is important now since your ex expressed the need to be alone or to be away from you.
Do not make the effort to call on your ex for now he/she finds you less appealing in your desperate and needy demeanor.
So back off, instead find a strategy how to win back your ex.
Spend sometime sorting out yourself but not all the time.
You are tempted to be away from the madding crowd, feel devastated and indulge in self pity; at the same time, focus on your past.
This is a surefire way to be depressed and recovery from depression will be a serious mental problem.
Get out and start reconnecting with family and friends, collect new ones.
Enjoy the fun of socializing and become a fun person.
It is not easy but this way will facilitate your strategy to win your ex back.
As you slowly recover from the break up, reflect about your role.
It is difficult to accept a mistake but you have to rectify whatever wrong you have committed.
Remember, it takes two to forge a relationship as it also takes two to break it.
You are now clear on the mistakes that cause the break up so it is time for you to rectify them.
Your ex will be mystified how well you reacted to the separation and he/she is likely to hear how well you have coped with the situation.
He/she will begin thinking about you and the happiness you once shared.
Whoever makes the first move to communicate is not important.
Soon you will get together and be able to iron out your differences like two matured individuals.
Problems can be resolved and relationships repaired.
You have to work on and use your best efforts on how to win back your ex.
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