I like to study human behavior. People are very interesting especially when they are in high stress situations. I am always, always amazed at how very crazy people can get when they just broken up with someone they love. Unfortunately, craziness is not a good attribute when you are working on getting back with ex boyfriend. It just plain old doesn't work. The good news is over 90% of relationships can be put back together, but you need a plan that works. Here are three steps that will help you with getting back with ex boyfriend.
Step 1 -- Don't get too crazy.
People go through all kinds of extremes to get their exes back. But extreme behavior often comes across as stalking. So if the result you want is a restraining order, then by all means, go for it. But if what you're hoping for is getting back your ex boyfriend, then drop the crazy behavior.
Step 2 -- Give yourself some time.
One of the reasons that people go off the deep end when they are faced with a breakup is that they don't give themselves any time to reflect and to breathe. What I need you to do right now, no matter how difficult it is, it's commits two weeks with no contact with your ex boyfriend. I know this seems harsh, but it works.
Step 3 -- Own responsibility.
When you go to make contact with your ex, you need to own responsibility for your part of what went wrong and the relationship. During a breakup all kinds of blame seems to fly around. This is counterproductive. Nobody likes to be blamed for what went wrong this is true of your ex boyfriend as well. So, buck up and figure it out. Take responsibility. This will impress your ex boyfriend and will go a long way towards getting ex boyfriend back. For exact words to say in your opening move with your ex boyfriend check out the video in my about author box.
Step 1 -- Don't get too crazy.
People go through all kinds of extremes to get their exes back. But extreme behavior often comes across as stalking. So if the result you want is a restraining order, then by all means, go for it. But if what you're hoping for is getting back your ex boyfriend, then drop the crazy behavior.
Step 2 -- Give yourself some time.
One of the reasons that people go off the deep end when they are faced with a breakup is that they don't give themselves any time to reflect and to breathe. What I need you to do right now, no matter how difficult it is, it's commits two weeks with no contact with your ex boyfriend. I know this seems harsh, but it works.
Step 3 -- Own responsibility.
When you go to make contact with your ex, you need to own responsibility for your part of what went wrong and the relationship. During a breakup all kinds of blame seems to fly around. This is counterproductive. Nobody likes to be blamed for what went wrong this is true of your ex boyfriend as well. So, buck up and figure it out. Take responsibility. This will impress your ex boyfriend and will go a long way towards getting ex boyfriend back. For exact words to say in your opening move with your ex boyfriend check out the video in my about author box.
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