Relationships are like plants, they need constant care and attention for them to flourish and get stronger.
However, in this world, nothing is perfect and breakups happen.
Breakups are stressful and frustrating and can be one of the worst experiences in your life.
If you're in a break up, the first reaction that you may have is to get back at your ex.
But seriously, is this what you really want? However, there are some ways where in getting back at your ex, you put them in a situation where they'll realise that they were important to you and you to them.
So the following five interesting tips tell you how to get back at your ex, while giving you a chance to actually get your ex back.
Be strong and confident.
No one wants a needy desperate partner, so stop begging and clinging to your ex.
Project the image that everything is okay with you and that you have moved on with your life without your ex and that everything is just great.
Before you know it, your ex will realise that you have really moved on, but they have not.
This will make them realise how valuable you are in their life.
Limit your communication with your ex.
This may seem a bit odd, since you're supposed to work at getting back together, but it is important to limit your communication.
Once you take a break from your ex, you give yourself and your ex a chance to clear their heads.
Once they are in the right frame of mind they will realise how much you meant to them, and how important you are to them.
Be flexible.
Don't be mean to your ex and demand that they move out of the house by next weekend.
Instead, be more flexible and listen to them.
Once they see this other side of you, they may want to build up the communication between you too.
This gives them a chance to realise that you're not so bad after all.
Go out and live life.
Don't stay cooped up in the house all alone.
Call up your friends and go out.
Meet some new people and enjoy yourself.
Of course it doesn't mean that you should date new people or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to live your life and enjoy some time with your friends.
This is actually therapeutic for you.
And soon your ex will realise how much they've missed you, which is good.
Be yourself.
Do you know why your ex had a relationship with you in the first place? It's because of who you are.
So be yourself and soon your ex will remember why they fell in love with you, and will think of all your good qualities.
This renewed perception of you will draw your ex closer to you and soon, you will get that second chance to get back together again.