You must say the right things or you could push him further away.
Getting your ex back may take a lot of effort on your part.
It all depends upon the circumstances surrounding your breakup.
Talking to him may help as long as you say the right words.
But, really.
What can you tell him to make him love you again? How do you know that you're telling him exactly what he wants to hear? Accept the Breakup One effective way of making your ex think about what's happening is to actually agree with the breakup.
By telling him that you're absolutely with him in his decision will only leave him thinking that he's the problem.
And it will definitely make him wonder what he could have done to make you feel that way.
Tell him that it's okay and that you too think it's the best for now, though all you really want to do is to scream and lash at him.
By accepting the situation, you will leave him with unanswered questions and sleepless nights thinking about you.
And that's exactly how you want it to be.
Empathize With Him Men like it when women stroke their egos.
This is the reason why you can actually get him back by telling him that you are the problem and you accept it.
Tell him that you're sorry that you hurt him in one way or another.
Like most men, your ex boyfriend will most probably let you have your way by fixing your relationship since you have admitted your mistake.
Understand Him Tell him that you understand why he's done this and that you wish you could have done something to fix it before it became worse.
This will make him think about giving you another shot since obviously, you know where he's coming from.
Most importantly, you need to know what the source of all your disagreements is.
Learn to compromise so you don't have to go through the same experience again.